"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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why or how come she is nice to me?

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Yeah, belivie or not, I'm not use to nice girls. (if that even exist)

There is this girl at work that is super nice to me and from time to time she will tell me how crazy things will be/get in bed.

My question is, how come she is so nice? I haven't done anything to "work" for her. It's like shes throwing her ***** at my face and instead of me taking it, I get suspicious instead.

I'm not saying she is perfect, she told me storys about how much she ****s around and so on, but as you guys can tell, shes honest about it.

Thoughts?

Why would a girl be nice in the first place?

I see her being a ***** to others.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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overthinking

If you get a hard from her, try her. But please stop thinking about her when you are not with her.

Let the world around you just happen.

Even if she is just playing with you. When you go for it she will either take it or leave it.
 
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Talking about how many c0cks she's riding wouldn't immediately make me think she's being nice to me. WTF?
She's another casualty of feminism who think that to be equal, she has to fvck around and talk about it like men do.
Don't fool yourself with this one. She's using you to validate her slvttishness. Just laugh and say something like: "Wow, that's crazy" and either change the subject or (my strongest tip) walk away.
Fvck her if you must, but don't put her on a pedestal.
 
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Dear Beyond Earth,
Be very careful about screwing around at work,very easy to be targeted if she gets upset with you...They will always believe her!...If after consideration you still want go ahead then she can only ever be a Plate....Always use prorection and don't get too emotionally involved!
 
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Scaramouche said:
Dear Beyond Earth,
Be very careful about screwing around at work,very easy to be targeted if she gets upset with you...They will always believe her!...If after consideration you still want go ahead then she can only ever be a Plate....Always use prorection and don't get too emotionally involved!
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I banged a girl at work. I pissed her off because she found out I was a player. I got laid off in the first round of cuts.

That's what happens when you sh!t where you eat.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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i hate to say it but im so used to women being unfriendly that i get very suspicious, even angry if one of them is nice to me or shows me an IOI these days, its so shocking and out of the ordinary to me, just cant bring myself to believe a woman could genuinely be interested in me as a human being, i cant make myself believe it no matter how hard i try
 
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