Why Online Dating(OLD) is the best option for most men

[BillyPilgrim]

I will say I'm now exploring venues and activities where I can meet women with common interests. Trouble is most of my interests are manly, hiking, guns, camping, etc. and not a lot of women are into those. But the nice thing about groups and activities is that you can get to know them before dating them, figure out if they are nuts.

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[SW15]

I think OLD is just dominated by Chad.

The swipe apps are generally the domain of the Top 10% male.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

I think OLD is just dominated by Chad. A Chad can kill it online, whereas IRL Chad may have poor conversational or social skills or not get the chances, on OLD Chad ie tall, good-looking, ie the type of guy every woman is going for is going to get ALOT of female attention.

Because the OLD experience is generally shallow and superficial, it suits those types of guys most. My personal opinion is that I would lose online to a chad but not IRL I would be confident against chad in the room. Im good looking enough to be a chad if I was bigger and taller and more talkative like a bro but im not that guy.

I always felt OLD esp newer Apps were just dominated by Chad player types ie tall clean-cut good looking guys outgoing etc and for that reason I always stayed away.

It is not necessary to be a 'Chad Player Type' to do well on OLD.

 

[I_have_BDE]

I think OLD had its peak at some point where it was efficient to meet women through. I think the 2010s were the peaks for the dating apps and I would have weeks where I got 4 to 5 dates off of them which turned to lays. However, I think that now, they have become a money grab infested with bots and fake profiles. They use deceptive marketing and other under-handed tricks to make you pay and resetting your profile to get a new ELO score has become darn near impossible.

Here is a good read

Attention men: get rid of online dating, now

Online dating is now a waste of time for men in 2021.

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Correct. Even before covid they were crappy in 2019 but still LIGHT YEARS better than today. Even 4 years ago they were not as money grubbing is they're now. Before COVID you got a lot more swipes on Tinder, Bumble before you had to pay. Now it's paywall and a lot less desirable women as well. Tinder and Bumble are nearly unusable unless you pay. Match LLC is buying them all up.

 

[Gamisch]

I think OLD is just dominated by Chad. A Chad can kill it online, whereas IRL Chad may have poor conversational or social skills or not get the chances, on OLD Chad ie tall, good-looking, ie the type of guy every woman is going for is going to get ALOT of female attention.

Because the OLD experience is generally shallow and superficial, it suits those types of guys most. My personal opinion is that I would lose online to a chad but not IRL I would be confident against chad in the room. Im good looking enough to be a chad if I was bigger and taller and more talkative like a bro but im not that guy.

I always felt OLD esp newer Apps were just dominated by Chad player types ie tall clean-cut good looking guys outgoing etc and for that reason I always stayed away.

I never looked at it this way. But it does makes sense. Perhaps it's also the main reason why so many women eventually end up unhappy using OLD.

Before OLD a man had to have some sort of a mouthpiece. And, before OLD all the man had to do was open his mouth in order to get disqualified. Now SHE will have to do much more effort before she finds out that her perceived Chad is just another AFC/beta . Lets not forget that men can also fake and manipulate pictures. A rented suite and car are like male make up.

 

[CornbreadFed]

Im the polar opposite of a Chad and I would be screwed if it wasn’t for OLD.

 

[SW15]

Im the polar opposite of a Chad and I would be screwed if it wasn’t for OLD.

You're likely somewhat of an outlier or an actual outlier. The type male experience on the swipe apps is generally negative.

 

[corrector]

I think OLD is just dominated by Chad. A Chad can kill it online, whereas IRL Chad may have poor conversational or social skills or not get the chances, on OLD Chad ie tall, good-looking, ie the type of guy every woman is going for is going to get ALOT of female attention.

Because the OLD experience is generally shallow and superficial, it suits those types of guys most. My personal opinion is that I would lose online to a chad but not IRL I would be confident against chad in the room. Im good looking enough to be a chad if I was bigger and taller and more talkative like a bro but im not that guy.

I always felt OLD esp newer Apps were just dominated by Chad player types ie tall clean-cut good looking guys outgoing etc and for that reason I always stayed away.

@sangheilios must be killing it with the apps.

 

[Bokanovsky]

I spend 1 day of the weekend doing what I enjoy, going to dance salsa, bachata, merengue, latino music. That's how I meet women, approach, kino and try to make some connection.

I'm not the typical guy drinking by the bar.

You are very lucky if you genuinely enjoy that kind of stuff (if you are being honest). Most heterosexual men find salsa, bachata, etc. about as enjoyable as writing a math exam.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

You are very lucky if you genuinely enjoy that kind of stuff (if you are being honest). Most heterosexual men find salsa, bachata, etc. about as enjoyable as writing a math exam.

Earlier this year. A girl invited me to her salsa night at a local club. I went. plenty of attractive women. I’m a terrible dancer so it just wasn’t my thing.

 

[Jesse Pinkman]

Correct. Even before covid they were crappy in 2019 but still LIGHT YEARS better than today. Even 4 years ago they were not as money grubbing is they're now. Before COVID you got a lot more swipes on Tinder, Bumble before you had to pay. Now it's paywall and a lot less desirable women as well. Tinder and Bumble are nearly unusable unless you pay. Match LLC is buying them all up.

FWIW, I recently caught up with an old friend who is 6'3, blue eyed, jacked, and an Aussie accent. He had pro photos done for OLD. Even he told me that the apps barely give him much of anything. If he is struggling, it talks to how far it has fallen. Something is up for sure.

 

[Gamisch]

FWIW, I recently caught up with an old friend who is 6'3, blue eyed, jacked, and an Aussie accent. He had pro photos done for OLD. Even he told me that the apps barely give him much of anything. If he is struggling, it talks to how far it has fallen. Something is up for sure.

Back in the days we used to organize R&B parties where the ladies got free entrance, men had to pay 25 bucks.

I get this feeling with OLD, especially now there's one big fish swallowing every other small company in the same niche. Monopolize it, then monetize it.

But yeah," testimonies " like this can help a lotta man with giving OLD results, or lack of, a peaceful place instead of letting result on OLD determineyour selfesteem/worth. The truth will come out sooner or later about what's going on with algorithms ect.

E.g apparently you can get shadowbanned. Cool. You get no notification nothing. So what if I am not aware that I was shadowbanned, but yet I get a diamond subscription? Will they undo the ban? Stuff like this will come out in a courtroom some day.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

FWIW, I recently caught up with an old friend who is 6'3, blue eyed, jacked, and an Aussie accent. He had pro photos done for OLD. Even he told me that the apps barely give him much of anything. If he is struggling, it talks to how far it has fallen. Something is up for sure.

How is his face?

 

[DreamAgain]

FWIW, I recently caught up with an old friend who is 6'3, blue eyed, jacked, and an Aussie accent. He had pro photos done for OLD. Even he told me that the apps barely give him much of anything. If he is struggling, it talks to how far it has fallen. Something is up for sure.

I sense some blackpill in this young buck, it is inevitable haha

 

[CornbreadFed]

FWIW, I recently caught up with an old friend who is 6'3, blue eyed, jacked, and an Aussie accent. He had pro photos done for OLD. Even he told me that the apps barely give him much of anything. If he is struggling, it talks to how far it has fallen. Something is up for sure.

Have you seen his pictures? Girls aren't fans of wolves, you are supposed to appear as a wolf in sheep's clothing. Y'all need to understand that women have been burned by these types of men, so appearing as an obvious fvck boy isn't going to work. Never go fvck boy!

 

[I_have_BDE]

Back in the days we used to organize R&B parties where the ladies got free entrance, men had to pay 25 bucks.

I get this feeling with OLD, especially now there's one big fish swallowing every other small company in the same niche. Monopolize it, then monetize it.

But yeah," testimonies " like this can help a lotta man with giving OLD results, or lack of, a peaceful place instead of letting result on OLD determineyour selfesteem/worth. The truth will come out sooner or later about what's going on with algorithms ect.

E.g apparently you can get shadowbanned. Cool. You get no notification nothing. So what if I am not aware that I was shadowbanned, but yet I get a diamond subscription? Will they undo the ban? Stuff like this will come out in a courtroom some day.

Strange. Havent fired up tinder in 2 weeks and suddenly i got some new likes.

I see a lot less hot women and women on old so im sure they're sick of paywalls on the premium sites as well.

 

[DreamAgain]

@CornbreadFed what type of girls do you target most for OLD, just curious?

 

[Hamurabimbi]

Have you seen his pictures? Girls aren't fans of wolves, you are supposed to appear as a wolf in sheep's clothing. Y'all need to understand that women have been burned by these types of men, so appearing as an obvious fvck boy isn't going to work. Never go fvck boy!

Some women are turned on by perceived’. ‘wolves’. There is quite a market for ‘fuqbois’.

 

[Murk]

I need to get to a salsa night and check out the tanned women and homosexuals mincing around

Not many latinas where I’m from, that’s why I love Miami so much.

 

[CheekyMonkey101]

I really like online dating, personally. I even did a YouTube video on it.