"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Why NOT to post pictures of your women on SS

bigneil

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There are many good reasons NOT to publish actual photos of your girlfriends or prospects here, including:

1) Another person who dated her might recognize her and point her to the web site. She will NOT be impressed to find out you are publishing details of your relationship (if there even is one).

2) When we say "HB9.5" we really mean a girl WE think is really hot (if not the hottest girl we know), but someone else will imagine their OWN "really hot girl", and chances are it won't look like the same girl.

3) The woman herself might find you here, and she could sign up for a membership and start following your posts here (that actually happened to me 5 years ago).

4) People who see the photo not be from the same race as the girl in the photo. Some of us imagine people from the forum are the same race as us (or just don't think about it at all) so it can be weird.

5) Even if she is really hot, people will be jealous and will pretend her photos are airbrushed.

(List your reasons you agree or disagree here).
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Zerro

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Agreed on all 5, especially point #2. One man's 9 is another man's 8 and as far as I'm concerned there is no such thing as a universally accepted 10.
 

Mike32ct

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I agree. Plus, posting "bragging pictures" of girls is more PUA stuff, not so much a DJ thing.

You are also inviting criticism from other members if they don't think the girls you pull are that hot or not as hot as you claim.

I personally don't care if a guy pulls the biggest warpig. I would never criticize him for that. Who I am to judge? If he's happy, I'm happy for him. But not everyone thinks that way.

I would also avoid posting links to online dating profiles. If you post the link to your own online dating profile (for feedback), the girls you are communicating with online might G o o g le your profile ID. That can take them to this site where your post said...

"Hey guys, check out my profile and let me know what you think. Here is the link. I'm trying to b*ng this P O F girl. Check out her picture. Her profile link is below."

Obviously, that WON'T go over very well lol.
 

Marvin Gaye

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Disagree. I'm pretty indifferent to posting pics of my conquests or girls I've slayed. Sosuave seems like a pretty low-key site, not something I'd expect people to know about.

But then again I'm just a teen!! Yall may have more wisdome than moĺ
 

Jariel

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I remember some years ago a member of this forum posted his myspace details and photos of the girls he'd been banging or trying to bang. Some sneaky member of this forum then contacted these girls and sent them the link to his sosuave post.

Always best to be cautious. And like Mike said, no matter how hot the girl is you're posting there will always be members who claim she's not hot and they can do so much better.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Zerro

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Marvin Gaye said:
Disagree. I'm pretty indifferent to posting pics of my conquests or girls I've slayed. Sosuave seems like a pretty low-key site, not something I'd expect people to know about.

But then again I'm just a teen!! Yall may have more wisdome than moĺ
Showing other guys pics is rather childish plus they carry little weight as there are so many self-taken pics of girls on the Internet that there's nothing to stop a dude from downloading some onto his phone and claiming that the chick sent them to him. It wasn't long ago that I called one guy out on that when he thought I'd be impressed by some half-naked mirror pics of some chick.
 

Leopold

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because I dont care... posting pics of your girls inst going to help me get laid :/
 

PrettyBoyAJ

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Privacy. How would you feel if there were pictures of you on the net posted for a lot of people to see.
 
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