Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Why NOT to post pictures of your women on SS

bigneil

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There are many good reasons NOT to publish actual photos of your girlfriends or prospects here, including:

1) Another person who dated her might recognize her and point her to the web site. She will NOT be impressed to find out you are publishing details of your relationship (if there even is one).

2) When we say "HB9.5" we really mean a girl WE think is really hot (if not the hottest girl we know), but someone else will imagine their OWN "really hot girl", and chances are it won't look like the same girl.

3) The woman herself might find you here, and she could sign up for a membership and start following your posts here (that actually happened to me 5 years ago).

4) People who see the photo not be from the same race as the girl in the photo. Some of us imagine people from the forum are the same race as us (or just don't think about it at all) so it can be weird.

5) Even if she is really hot, people will be jealous and will pretend her photos are airbrushed.

(List your reasons you agree or disagree here).
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Zerro

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Agreed on all 5, especially point #2. One man's 9 is another man's 8 and as far as I'm concerned there is no such thing as a universally accepted 10.
 

Mike32ct

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I agree. Plus, posting "bragging pictures" of girls is more PUA stuff, not so much a DJ thing.

You are also inviting criticism from other members if they don't think the girls you pull are that hot or not as hot as you claim.

I personally don't care if a guy pulls the biggest warpig. I would never criticize him for that. Who I am to judge? If he's happy, I'm happy for him. But not everyone thinks that way.

I would also avoid posting links to online dating profiles. If you post the link to your own online dating profile (for feedback), the girls you are communicating with online might G o o g le your profile ID. That can take them to this site where your post said...

"Hey guys, check out my profile and let me know what you think. Here is the link. I'm trying to b*ng this P O F girl. Check out her picture. Her profile link is below."

Obviously, that WON'T go over very well lol.
 

Marvin Gaye

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Disagree. I'm pretty indifferent to posting pics of my conquests or girls I've slayed. Sosuave seems like a pretty low-key site, not something I'd expect people to know about.

But then again I'm just a teen!! Yall may have more wisdome than moĺ
 

Jariel

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I remember some years ago a member of this forum posted his myspace details and photos of the girls he'd been banging or trying to bang. Some sneaky member of this forum then contacted these girls and sent them the link to his sosuave post.

Always best to be cautious. And like Mike said, no matter how hot the girl is you're posting there will always be members who claim she's not hot and they can do so much better.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Zerro

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Marvin Gaye said:
Disagree. I'm pretty indifferent to posting pics of my conquests or girls I've slayed. Sosuave seems like a pretty low-key site, not something I'd expect people to know about.

But then again I'm just a teen!! Yall may have more wisdome than moĺ
Showing other guys pics is rather childish plus they carry little weight as there are so many self-taken pics of girls on the Internet that there's nothing to stop a dude from downloading some onto his phone and claiming that the chick sent them to him. It wasn't long ago that I called one guy out on that when he thought I'd be impressed by some half-naked mirror pics of some chick.
 

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because I dont care... posting pics of your girls inst going to help me get laid :/
 

PrettyBoyAJ

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Privacy. How would you feel if there were pictures of you on the net posted for a lot of people to see.
 
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