"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Why NOT to post pictures of your women on SS

bigneil

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There are many good reasons NOT to publish actual photos of your girlfriends or prospects here, including:

1) Another person who dated her might recognize her and point her to the web site. She will NOT be impressed to find out you are publishing details of your relationship (if there even is one).

2) When we say "HB9.5" we really mean a girl WE think is really hot (if not the hottest girl we know), but someone else will imagine their OWN "really hot girl", and chances are it won't look like the same girl.

3) The woman herself might find you here, and she could sign up for a membership and start following your posts here (that actually happened to me 5 years ago).

4) People who see the photo not be from the same race as the girl in the photo. Some of us imagine people from the forum are the same race as us (or just don't think about it at all) so it can be weird.

5) Even if she is really hot, people will be jealous and will pretend her photos are airbrushed.

(List your reasons you agree or disagree here).
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Zerro

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Agreed on all 5, especially point #2. One man's 9 is another man's 8 and as far as I'm concerned there is no such thing as a universally accepted 10.
 

Mike32ct

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I agree. Plus, posting "bragging pictures" of girls is more PUA stuff, not so much a DJ thing.

You are also inviting criticism from other members if they don't think the girls you pull are that hot or not as hot as you claim.

I personally don't care if a guy pulls the biggest warpig. I would never criticize him for that. Who I am to judge? If he's happy, I'm happy for him. But not everyone thinks that way.

I would also avoid posting links to online dating profiles. If you post the link to your own online dating profile (for feedback), the girls you are communicating with online might G o o g le your profile ID. That can take them to this site where your post said...

"Hey guys, check out my profile and let me know what you think. Here is the link. I'm trying to b*ng this P O F girl. Check out her picture. Her profile link is below."

Obviously, that WON'T go over very well lol.
 

Marvin Gaye

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Disagree. I'm pretty indifferent to posting pics of my conquests or girls I've slayed. Sosuave seems like a pretty low-key site, not something I'd expect people to know about.

But then again I'm just a teen!! Yall may have more wisdome than moĺ
 

Jariel

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I remember some years ago a member of this forum posted his myspace details and photos of the girls he'd been banging or trying to bang. Some sneaky member of this forum then contacted these girls and sent them the link to his sosuave post.

Always best to be cautious. And like Mike said, no matter how hot the girl is you're posting there will always be members who claim she's not hot and they can do so much better.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Zerro

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Marvin Gaye said:
Disagree. I'm pretty indifferent to posting pics of my conquests or girls I've slayed. Sosuave seems like a pretty low-key site, not something I'd expect people to know about.

But then again I'm just a teen!! Yall may have more wisdome than moĺ
Showing other guys pics is rather childish plus they carry little weight as there are so many self-taken pics of girls on the Internet that there's nothing to stop a dude from downloading some onto his phone and claiming that the chick sent them to him. It wasn't long ago that I called one guy out on that when he thought I'd be impressed by some half-naked mirror pics of some chick.
 

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because I dont care... posting pics of your girls inst going to help me get laid :/
 

PrettyBoyAJ

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Privacy. How would you feel if there were pictures of you on the net posted for a lot of people to see.
 
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