Dr.Gonzo
Don Juan
It's called sexual deviancy.Alle_Gory said:
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Why not just turn gay?
- Thread starter HardTimes
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Guoy Darko
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theunflushables
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He's in denial about his sexual orientation. It's always been there, now its just starting to show. No straight man would think about going gay, unless he was a little bit gay himself.
Three step proccess:
1. Curiosity: "I don't like men, but I think I might want to go gay."
2. Action: "I picked up a gay guy last night, I had gay sex for the first time."
3. Acceptance "I'm gay (bi-sexual)."
Denial is generally spread throughout the first two steps because they're thinking "this isnt the way things were supposed to be".
Go out and do your thing if that's what your into. If it makes you happy and you aren't breaking any laws, go for it.
So you know, you don't have to take it in the ass. You could be the top.
Three step proccess:
1. Curiosity: "I don't like men, but I think I might want to go gay."
2. Action: "I picked up a gay guy last night, I had gay sex for the first time."
3. Acceptance "I'm gay (bi-sexual)."
Denial is generally spread throughout the first two steps because they're thinking "this isnt the way things were supposed to be".
Go out and do your thing if that's what your into. If it makes you happy and you aren't breaking any laws, go for it.
So you know, you don't have to take it in the ass. You could be the top.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
sandman6991
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Not unless he actually turns gay...Warrior74 said:
