Dr.Gonzo
Don Juan
It's called sexual deviancy.Alle_Gory said:
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Why not just turn gay?
- Thread starter HardTimes
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Guoy Darko
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theunflushables
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He's in denial about his sexual orientation. It's always been there, now its just starting to show. No straight man would think about going gay, unless he was a little bit gay himself.
Three step proccess:
1. Curiosity: "I don't like men, but I think I might want to go gay."
2. Action: "I picked up a gay guy last night, I had gay sex for the first time."
3. Acceptance "I'm gay (bi-sexual)."
Denial is generally spread throughout the first two steps because they're thinking "this isnt the way things were supposed to be".
Go out and do your thing if that's what your into. If it makes you happy and you aren't breaking any laws, go for it.
So you know, you don't have to take it in the ass. You could be the top.
Three step proccess:
1. Curiosity: "I don't like men, but I think I might want to go gay."
2. Action: "I picked up a gay guy last night, I had gay sex for the first time."
3. Acceptance "I'm gay (bi-sexual)."
Denial is generally spread throughout the first two steps because they're thinking "this isnt the way things were supposed to be".
Go out and do your thing if that's what your into. If it makes you happy and you aren't breaking any laws, go for it.
So you know, you don't have to take it in the ass. You could be the top.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
sandman6991
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Not unless he actually turns gay...Warrior74 said:
