"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Why not just turn gay?

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HardTimes said:
I will admit that I am not at all attracted to men, but I think I'm going to try to make myself become gay. I mean, why not? You will NEVER have a problem getting a boyfriend and you will NEVER feel lonely again as there are seemingly more gay men willing to go out with you than straight females are. I mean think about it. Why spend all this effort only to fail in the end at attracting females when gay men will like you how you are and give you a chance.

The return on investment just isn't there with women (for me and others im sure).

Why don't I and other people in my situation just start batting for the other team? I'm not attracted to men but I might be able to learn to be. Even if I don't eventually end up bring attracted to them, I can just fake it and never be lonely again.
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I think you should go after men. Its obvious you want C*ck.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Wow bro thats crazy. I like boobies and nice ass (that man cant possibly have) way too much to turn gay. I would rather never be with anyone than turn gay.
 
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Turning gay won't solve his loneliness problem either. It will likely worsen it, after the gays fvck & chuck him over & over again.
 
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You can probably follow a course at some university on how to become gay.

Ehrm... I mean.... Oh no.

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this has to be an april fools joke. IT HAS TO BE.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Explain exactly why?

Are you afraid of ending up alone? with this attitude even gay people won't want to have a long term relationship with you.
If it's about loneliness, just get some FRIENDS...
the only difference between having friends and having a gay-boyfriend is that you can't have sex with them (eugh gaysecks:p) and that you don't share love (well, not in that kind of way)

Having friends also means doing things and feeling good.
Girls see that you are willing to do things and that your not totally pathetic and will probably want to date you...

problem solved

haha! and you thought about turning gay...that is so..._ _ _
 
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Gays have standards too.

I doubt any of them would want someone as messed up as you sound right now.
 
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Dude you act like a woman. You go whine and hope someone comes to rescue you. Thats the chick role.

To get help on this forum, ask what you need help with instead of whining about stuff.
 
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Let me be a living inspiration to you:

you may not believe me, but I'm FAT (as in obese, even have moobs) but I still get women's attention. why? I'm a jackass. I'm not afraid to be assertive, and confident in myself. and I ALWAYS remind women of my sexuality (I'm 18, btw, lol)

my last gf, she was this 5'5, 130lb Mexican girl who almost everyone would rate an 8 out of 10. dark skin, great smile--I did it because I befriended her, and drove her NUTS with my constant reminders that I didn't find her as attractive as the girl's I was screwing (That I reminded her of)

so she got to know me emotionally (which made her attracted to me on that level) but I was a challenge. see, the fat man is supposed to be trying to bang any girl who comes near him, right? WRONG. I straight ignored her so much, she thought I was something special, and felt intimidated to even approach me. lol. straight up.

we're broke up now, but man, I had mack skills. had.

Lol, I should post this in a separate thread...
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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and yeah, there's something about a short, dark mexican girl who's overly feminine in bright white short shorts that gives me a hard-on like no man ever possibly could.

how can you be straight and just go gay? I love women too much
 
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Why not just get castrated and become an asexual? What kind of a stupid thread is this.
 
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Well , its actually a cool idea.

For these loosers , its more easier to accept a d1ck inside their ass and inside their mouths than to take their balls and start taking massive action (approaching , going out) to achieve the top of their game.


A guy with this kind of mentality is never going to be good. In none of the aspects of the life.

A REAL MAN TAKES THE HARD WAY.
 
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buddy read the game by neil strauss, if u still feel the same way after it then there's nothing we can do here...
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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damn so this wasnt a april fools joke lol. This thread probaly explains your troubles with women. Im no don juan i wouldnt say but this is horrible. The fact you would think of something so extreme is the problem. You couldve started at a ugly,desperate old lady but sumhow you went all the way to the otherside and thought about fuking other men! It shows you probaly have this same thought proccess with women. You believe the worst possible thing could happen when you tryto speak to women which keeps you from doing it. Instead of thinking they will politely talk to you even if they are not interested,u believe they will laugh in your face and throw coffee on you...this is easily the most extreme thought ive ever seen here. Even had u decided to become a rapist at least you could say you were finally taking charge. And no im not giving you any ideas.
 
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snowdog said:
Because you'd have to f*ck other dudes in their ass, and you will have to get your ass f*cked by other dudes. And that's f*cked up.
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There's nothing wrong with that. Some guys like that. They're called GAY.

What's ****ed up is that a straight man is so desperate for sex that he is willing to turn gay.
 
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Alle_Gory said:
There's nothing wrong with that. Some guys like that. They're called GAY.

What's ****ed up is that a straight man is so desperate for sex that he is willing to turn gay.
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Well, I'm sure you agree it's f*cked up if you're not actually gay...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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