Why no woman should wait until her 40s to have a baby - by a mum who's just had one at 44

[steelpulse]

Interesting story from the Daily Mail.

35 is the age when a woman may experience significant difficulties getting pregnant. There is also increasing risk of health abnormalities. In 2019, the average age of marriage for women should 29. This gives women 5-6 years on average to bear healthy children without significant risk of complications.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/health/...woman-wait-40s-baby-mum-whos-just-one-44.html

"The warnings began soon after I had my first child, Mara. I was 34, a year shy of being medically classified a ‘geriatric mother’ – the age at which the risk of pregnancy complications begin to multiply...
...if I was fertile in my early 30s, a few years’ delay wouldn’t make much difference, would it? How wrong I was.

Three months ago – at 44 – I did finally have a baby. I can’t believe Elena is here. I am so thrilled I don’t even feel tired. But the past five years of my life have been lost to a horrible rollercoaster of desperate longing, dashed hopes, miscarriage, fertility drugs and pain – both physical and emotional."

note: the woman in this story sacrificed all worldly possessions, all luxuries, all social life in order to have a second child at her age. She and her family had to sacrifice everything, including an automobile.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

TLTR/DNR

Its a remake of chase career, a means to pedal women running up student loans in retarr majors like women's studies or gebder studies. The equivalent of left handed puppetry or basket weaving.

The only thing more retarded are the simps who bang old ladies.

 

[MatureDJ]

This has refocused my attention to going for women below age 30.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

This has refocused my attention to going for women below age 30.

Whats your age? What is your reason?

 

[The Duke]

I am appalled by the number of women over 35 on Bumble that state they want to have a baby. Selfish. Delusional. Clueless. Irrational.

 

[MatureDJ]

Whats your age? What is your reason?

I'm early 50s. I had been considering dating women in their early 30s as I see a lot more of them on Tinder (in the Eastern European country where I ex-pat).

 

[Trump]

Three months ago – at 44 – I did finally have a baby. I can’t believe Elena is here. I am so thrilled I don’t even feel tired. But the past five years of my life have been lost to a horrible rollercoaster of desperate longing, dashed hopes, miscarriage, fertility drugs and pain – both physical and emotional."

The five years of a man's life between late 20s early 30s when we wants to have a baby and be so thrilled he doesn't feel tired, but cannot find a suitable women, are also lost to a horrible roller coaster of desperate longing to connect with a woman, dashed hopes of getting married and starting a family, ghosting by females, shaming, resentment , drugs and pain - both physical and emotional.

 

[R.U.G.]

Going to lay some knowledge down here. Modern women, in terms of family and children nowadays, in general are delusional. You have no idea how many women I meet online and in professional gatherings which are 38, 39, 40+ who really think they can have a child easily. A few years back I dated a woman, 34, who was smart (educationally wise), attractive and wanted 3 kids; I just laughed inside. She's 37 now, and still has yet to find her perfect match good enough to procreate with. I've dated a woman who was 40 and had her eggs frozen. That's all fine and dandy, but IVF has less than a 10% rate of working in your early 40's; besides at 12k a cycle, that's pretty $$$. One woman who I know is 39 and on a dating site. She's hoping to be married within 2 years and have 2 kids pretty soon after.

Feminism has made the modern woman delusional. My ex-wife was unable to have any kids. She said it was me, so I had my sperm checked 4 times. Nope, not me. She was basically unable to get pregnant at 37 and 38. Of course, she blamed me because we didn't start trying at 35. ??? Anyways, for the white's and asians the populations will continue to retract. The Blacks and Hispanics will continue to grow. Nothing wrong with that, but it just shows you where, in general, each race places reproduction.

 

[backseatjuan]

Funny sh1t or maybe not. My cousin she is my age maybe two years older. Got pregtant 6 years ago from a down disabled guy. How the dynamic went I could only imagine, but I rather not. Yea. Today she has another guy he is 42 older than her. She got a girl from him. They alright.

I know I am gonna skip a paragraph or two here, but yea, women should get pregnant before 30. I can elaborate over whatsapp. For us acomplished is successful. For them its more than succesful, even that on 2nd place, they want a baby.

 

[R.U.G.]

Funny sh1t or maybe not. My cousin she is my age maybe two years older. Got pregtant 6 years ago from a down disabled guy. How the dynamic went I could only imagine, but I rather not. Yea. Today she has another guy he is 42 older than her. She got a girl from him. They alright.

I know I am gonna skip a paragraph or two here, but yea, women should get pregnant before 30. I can elaborate over whatsapp. For us acomplished is successful. For them its more than succesful, even that on 2nd place, they want a baby.

Does your cousin live near Chernobyl?

 

[redskinsfan92]

I'd venture to say a woman should start having kids in her 20s.

 

[Bible_Belt]

Downs babies are born almost exclusively to mothers over 35. After 40, the odds of the kid having downs go up exponentially with each passing year.

 

[lizardking82]

This is common knowledge, I guess. Women have been indoctrinated into believing they don't need a man to create a family and that they can bring a child up normally on their own just like two parents can. They even glorify the idea of the single mother "tearing herself to pieces to bring up the child with all the best things", but it's just a hoax. Most of these kids turn out to be f-d up. A lot of kids being brought up in two parent families turn out to be f-d up, let alone ones by single mothers.

Interesting developments, but I think all this is bound to erupt in some violence, in some sort of way, soon. I hope not, but...

 

[Who Dares Win]

There is a reason for which we talk about expiring date...its not only in terms of looks.

 

[sosousage]

TLTR/DNR

Its a remake of chase career, a means to pedal women running up student loans in retarr majors like women's studies or gebder studies. The equivalent of left handed puppetry or basket weaving.

The only thing more retarded are the simps who bang old ladies.

you just jelly about mature puzzies we hit and u dont

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

you just jelly about mature puzzies we hit and u dont

Mature.

Lulz thats a new one along with body positivity and excuse for your soy boy stamp collection. You call yourself a man?

Son, you can't compete with top form SMV 18-23 baeeeees. You mad?


Get your pathetic excuse for a testosterone levels checked.

 

[Trump]

The only thing more retarded are the simps who bang old ladies.

Yes because all the men on Sosuave would say: “Sleep with Sharon Stone when she was 35? No thanks.”

 

[backseatjuan]

 

[Crown]

Few months ago, I was wondering why indian and chinese cultures were marrying their kids so young. Then the Red Pill kicked in: girls start to fade after 25 and the risk of health abnormalities increases each year. So to counter this, famillies marry their daughters before or near their 20s in order to avoid future male rejection. Once married, you are almost locked with your partner till death. I heard in india, it's extremely shameful to even think of divorce: the famillies interfere and make the necessary to keep the relationship stable.

 

[RangerMIke]

I am appalled by the number of women over 35 on Bumble that state they want to have a baby. Selfish. Delusional. Clueless. Irrational.

Selfish. Delusional. Clueless. and Irrational are pretty much adjectives for most women.