"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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"Why Nice Guys Fail With Women"

BigFoot

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Hi Guys, just saw this David DeAngelo article "Why Nice Guys Fail With Women"
and had to comment: what a load of nonsense. He says exactly what he thinks he should say to sell his book. If you followed what he is implying, you'll need his book because few women will be interested in you!
The most popular guys I know are "nice" (which does not mean lacking in confidence, being overly accomodating, etc). Nice well-socialized guys get most of the women. It's the fame and social value that draws the women to the rock stars he mentions, not because they're "bad" (and they're not usually bad anyway - it's just part of their image).
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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juanita

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u re completely right. the world isn't divided onto nice and bad guys, the world is divided onto nice attractive guys and dorks, and it doesn't mean that if a dork is using "****y and funny" technique he will have any success with women. he will just look pathetic no matter how well he masters his approach techniques with women.
 

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While it is true that David D. is a master marketing expert by now, what he says is not "total crap." Trust me, there IS a way you can become better at this, hell I've done it. I mean, you can improve A LOTT. A WHOLE LOT. Some guys already have it in them but with all the social programing get stuck in the "whimp" mode because they think it's right and safe. Once they see the light, there is no limit what some guys can do. I can put my life on this because I've done it my self and a few of my relatives/close friends have taken the "game" to an extreme and they're even naturally better then me (although I won't tell 'em that ;)) But I am truly amazed by how much a person can improve them selves.
 
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