Hi Guys, just saw this David DeAngelo article "Why Nice Guys Fail With Women"
and had to comment: what a load of nonsense. He says exactly what he thinks he should say to sell his book. If you followed what he is implying, you'll need his book because few women will be interested in you!
The most popular guys I know are "nice" (which does not mean lacking in confidence, being overly accomodating, etc). Nice well-socialized guys get most of the women. It's the fame and social value that draws the women to the rock stars he mentions, not because they're "bad" (and they're not usually bad anyway - it's just part of their image).
and had to comment: what a load of nonsense. He says exactly what he thinks he should say to sell his book. If you followed what he is implying, you'll need his book because few women will be interested in you!
The most popular guys I know are "nice" (which does not mean lacking in confidence, being overly accomodating, etc). Nice well-socialized guys get most of the women. It's the fame and social value that draws the women to the rock stars he mentions, not because they're "bad" (and they're not usually bad anyway - it's just part of their image).