"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Why men want sex and women want love

Shiz Nizzle

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Most of the things I read on this site are for the most part true but that bull**** on the home page of this site, "Why men want sex and women want love",has to be some of the more ignorant statements I have ever read.

The Shiz Nizzle has spoken.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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DJsparky

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It's clearly not all true, maybe a majority, but i know alot of women out there who love sex, but dont want to commit and men who love a woman but dont neccesarly need sex (these people exist lol)
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Lemme' add to DJSparky's observation; yes a lot of women love good/b] sex. They just tend to be a bit more picky than most men who accept quantity over quality.
 

Jariel

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yeah, people make way too many generalisations on men and women. The fact is, both men and women differ from individual to individual.
 

thederekeffect1

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The article is wrong, and I'll be the first to say it. Maybe it was true at one time, but things changed. It's an equal playing field out there, if not reversed. In todays world, more and more men are looking for women to fill in their emotional desires while more and more women are looking for a quick f*ck. More and more men are actually staying faithful to their women, while more and more women are cheating on their partners. More men are finding that they want love. More women are finding that they want anything but love.

Maybe that's not supposed to be our human nature, but that's what's happening. Evolution? Role-reversal? Either way, the article is generalizing a world that is now in the past.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Big Eee Zee

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thederekeffect1 said:
Maybe that's not supposed to be our human nature, but that's what's happening. Evolution? Role-reversal? Either way, the article is generalizing a world that is now in the past.
Incorrect, the world is not "now past." Things have changed a tad, but i wouldnt say that the world say 20 years ago is dead and gone.

And its true, they vary from individual to individual. I dont think that most women want sex, most of the women you all persue do, but i think a majority of them are still looking for stability. I do believe that more men are staying faithful these days, and less women, which is unfortunate.

And not all men are just looking for sex
 
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