"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Why men want sex and women want love

Shiz Nizzle

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Most of the things I read on this site are for the most part true but that bull**** on the home page of this site, "Why men want sex and women want love",has to be some of the more ignorant statements I have ever read.

The Shiz Nizzle has spoken.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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DJsparky

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It's clearly not all true, maybe a majority, but i know alot of women out there who love sex, but dont want to commit and men who love a woman but dont neccesarly need sex (these people exist lol)
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Lemme' add to DJSparky's observation; yes a lot of women love good/b] sex. They just tend to be a bit more picky than most men who accept quantity over quality.
 

Jariel

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yeah, people make way too many generalisations on men and women. The fact is, both men and women differ from individual to individual.
 

thederekeffect1

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The article is wrong, and I'll be the first to say it. Maybe it was true at one time, but things changed. It's an equal playing field out there, if not reversed. In todays world, more and more men are looking for women to fill in their emotional desires while more and more women are looking for a quick f*ck. More and more men are actually staying faithful to their women, while more and more women are cheating on their partners. More men are finding that they want love. More women are finding that they want anything but love.

Maybe that's not supposed to be our human nature, but that's what's happening. Evolution? Role-reversal? Either way, the article is generalizing a world that is now in the past.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Big Eee Zee

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thederekeffect1 said:
Maybe that's not supposed to be our human nature, but that's what's happening. Evolution? Role-reversal? Either way, the article is generalizing a world that is now in the past.
Incorrect, the world is not "now past." Things have changed a tad, but i wouldnt say that the world say 20 years ago is dead and gone.

And its true, they vary from individual to individual. I dont think that most women want sex, most of the women you all persue do, but i think a majority of them are still looking for stability. I do believe that more men are staying faithful these days, and less women, which is unfortunate.

And not all men are just looking for sex
 
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