"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
'Why Men Marry *****es' or whatever it's called
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
IPalindromeI
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The message is pretty straightforward: it basically says that men do not want overly jealous, insecure, needy emotional vampires who have no life of their own except yours. They want women who are confident in themselves, have a life of their own that they want to share with you, not jealous, needy or insecure. It instructs women on how to become women worth pursuing, not women that you have to peel off of you in order to get rid of them.
Not too far off from what you find here, really. Only geared for women. Confident women are just as appealing as confident men, wouldn't you say?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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Francisco d'Anconia
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:yes: I've seen women who were *****es just about everyone except thier guy because they saw him as valuable. It was like night and day when the guy was with them or not.Mavrick said:A woman is a b1tch to a man when she sees herself as better than her mate. Once he has placed more value on her and her actions instead on his self, they become an abusive b1tch who believes they're doing the man a favor by being with him.
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Well, yes and no. The worst kind of bit*ch/woman is a liberated one, who thinks that Females are Superior to males, and is ****y. Those kind of women, I take a great, great joy out of reminding them that they are the weaker sex, and they are the ones who bleed once a month, get impregnated by males, and get buggered on occasion.IPalindromeI said:In the book, the b*tch part stands for : Babe in total control of herself. Not - an angry woman looking to cut your b*lls off and put them in her purse.
The message is pretty straightforward: it basically says that men do not want overly jealous, insecure, needy emotional vampires who have no life of their own except yours. They want women who are confident in themselves, have a life of their own that they want to share with you, not jealous, needy or insecure. It instructs women on how to become women worth pursuing, not women that you have to peel off of you in order to get rid of them.
Not too far off from what you find here, really. Only geared for women. Confident women are just as appealing as confident men, wouldn't you say?
Jealous, needy or insecure? If she looks like a sexy woman, worships the ground I walk on, and brings me beer? Well, I am not going to complain. I need a woman to never, ever walk in front of me, and behind me is bad too. I want one walking at my side.
IPalindromeI
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I couldn't handle jealous, needy or insecure. I'm thinking of extremes though: The type of women I think of when I think of that is one that blows your phone up with 50 calls on your cell phone when you have it turned off or in your car and you are out with your friends, and cries and accuses you of cheating on her when you finally answer because you didn't answer your phone before. Or worse yet, one who cries and threatens to end your relationship because she caught you rubbing one off and sees that as a form of cheating "because she is certain you are thinking of other girls when you do it". I don't care how hot she is or how much beer she serves up - that sort of "poor me" nonsense won't do.
Those types of behaviors are ones that they try to steer women away from.
Now that makes sense. That is more in line with what that book tries to teach women. You can't walk along side someone if you aren't strong enough to do so. It teaches that strength, not the man-bashing stuff that passes for strength.I want one walking at my side.