"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Why Men make better friends than woman

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Why Men make better friends than woman

Friendship Between Women:
A woman didn’t come home one night. The next day she told her husband that she had slept over at a friend’s house. The man called his wife’s 10 best friends. None of them knew about it.

Friendship Between Men:
A man didn’t come home one night. The next day he told his wife that he had slept over at a friend’s house. The woman called her Husband’s 10 best friends. Eight of them confirmed that he had slept over, and two claimed that he was still there.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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roja said:
Why Men make better friends than woman

Friendship Between Women:
A woman didn’t come home one night. The next day she told her husband that she had slept over at a friend’s house. The man called his wife’s 10 best friends. None of them knew about it.

Friendship Between Men:
A man didn’t come home one night. The next day he told his wife that he had slept over at a friend’s house. The woman called her Husband’s 10 best friends. Eight of them confirmed that he had slept over, and two claimed that he was still there.
Haha classic! :rockon:
 

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haha...

i know its just a joke, but its actually kinda true. women are too jealous and flaky to make good friends.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Women in my experience are just straight up fake with eachother. Hot ones hang out with girls they KNOW arent up to par with their looks so that it amplifies their hotness. Ugly ones hang out with hot chicks to leech off whatever attention is left over or to "share" the spotlight. But other than that, they also talk mad sh!t about eachother when the other isnt there...

Guys on the other hand can actually just sit and chill and have a genuily good time in eachothers presence AND IT ISNT GAY. We don't judge how the other looks cuz thats pretty fruity.
 

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LOL true

Men are masculine and therefore will hold their word, thie honor. Girl rely on intuition and are guided by feelings. If it feels good NOW she will do it. That's why I find that most girls are horrible at keeping secrets.
 

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A girl-friend (not girlfriend) of mine told me exactly the same thing - guys make better friends than girls, and she's right ;)
 

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There are some good points here, but, look at it this way, what the hell are you going to do with a girl as a friend? Go shopping? Talk about "hot" guys? Unless you're gay, there is no reason to subject yourself to that.

I guess it's good to have one or two female friends, but if you are hanging out with a bunch every weekend, that's a problem if you're a straight man.
 

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All the naturals I know have lots of female friends and hang out with girls a lot. I don't see how you are going to get comfortable with women if you don't spend time with them. They can also may good friends. Saying that you shouldn't be friends with women is a limiting belief. They offer great social proof as well.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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SinJester said:
All the naturals I know have lots of female friends and hang out with girls a lot. I don't see how you are going to get comfortable with women if you don't spend time with them. They can also may good friends. Saying that you shouldn't be friends with women is a limiting belief. They offer great social proof as well.

Just about every girl i talk to, i have the intentions of splitting some ****oris. Some girl friends are cool, but theres not point in talking to girls if theyre not gonna take their clothes off.
 
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