"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Why Men make better friends than woman

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Why Men make better friends than woman

Friendship Between Women:
A woman didn’t come home one night. The next day she told her husband that she had slept over at a friend’s house. The man called his wife’s 10 best friends. None of them knew about it.

Friendship Between Men:
A man didn’t come home one night. The next day he told his wife that he had slept over at a friend’s house. The woman called her Husband’s 10 best friends. Eight of them confirmed that he had slept over, and two claimed that he was still there.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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roja said:
Why Men make better friends than woman

Friendship Between Women:
A woman didn’t come home one night. The next day she told her husband that she had slept over at a friend’s house. The man called his wife’s 10 best friends. None of them knew about it.

Friendship Between Men:
A man didn’t come home one night. The next day he told his wife that he had slept over at a friend’s house. The woman called her Husband’s 10 best friends. Eight of them confirmed that he had slept over, and two claimed that he was still there.
Haha classic! :rockon:
 

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haha...

i know its just a joke, but its actually kinda true. women are too jealous and flaky to make good friends.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Women in my experience are just straight up fake with eachother. Hot ones hang out with girls they KNOW arent up to par with their looks so that it amplifies their hotness. Ugly ones hang out with hot chicks to leech off whatever attention is left over or to "share" the spotlight. But other than that, they also talk mad sh!t about eachother when the other isnt there...

Guys on the other hand can actually just sit and chill and have a genuily good time in eachothers presence AND IT ISNT GAY. We don't judge how the other looks cuz thats pretty fruity.
 

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LOL true

Men are masculine and therefore will hold their word, thie honor. Girl rely on intuition and are guided by feelings. If it feels good NOW she will do it. That's why I find that most girls are horrible at keeping secrets.
 

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A girl-friend (not girlfriend) of mine told me exactly the same thing - guys make better friends than girls, and she's right ;)
 

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There are some good points here, but, look at it this way, what the hell are you going to do with a girl as a friend? Go shopping? Talk about "hot" guys? Unless you're gay, there is no reason to subject yourself to that.

I guess it's good to have one or two female friends, but if you are hanging out with a bunch every weekend, that's a problem if you're a straight man.
 

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All the naturals I know have lots of female friends and hang out with girls a lot. I don't see how you are going to get comfortable with women if you don't spend time with them. They can also may good friends. Saying that you shouldn't be friends with women is a limiting belief. They offer great social proof as well.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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SinJester said:
All the naturals I know have lots of female friends and hang out with girls a lot. I don't see how you are going to get comfortable with women if you don't spend time with them. They can also may good friends. Saying that you shouldn't be friends with women is a limiting belief. They offer great social proof as well.

Just about every girl i talk to, i have the intentions of splitting some ****oris. Some girl friends are cool, but theres not point in talking to girls if theyre not gonna take their clothes off.
 
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