"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Why men are happier than women in the 40ties and above...

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Men don’t look back over a life of regret when they enter their late 30’s 40’s like women do. Women have their whole lives ahead of them in their teens and 20’s, and sometimes even into their 30’s and most squander it. Men however get better with age and learn form past experiences and become overall happier as they get more successful as they age.
 

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Women past the wall believing they are still desirable, even thinking they are 7's, 8's, 9's , 10's = delusional.
Yes
This mirage will still go on as long as there are weak thirsty simps out there validating and giving these women attention unfortunately...
But the smart ones will eventually figure this mirage out the older they get.
 

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Some wisdom gems in these lyrics....


The days that I keep my gratitude higher than my expectations are Really...Good....Days
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Girl that was a couple of years ahead of me in highschool was a 10... smoking... did modeling. She was also got around with a ton of guys... attention wh0re. If you go to get Facebook page when she was younger every selfie she posted had hundreds of comments “ gorgeous”, “stunning”, “sexy”.... on and on with simps! Now that she’s in her 40’s... she’s still an attention wh0re... but all her pics get a few likes.... usually her relatives now and her girlfriends.... In her 40’s the sun is setting... if not down !
 

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This mirage will still go on as long as there are weak thirsty simps out there validating and giving these women attention unfortunately...
If not the internet miraculously implodes by itself or some hacker blows it up, (Which never will happen); that behavior is here to stay forever. It's the new paradigm and reality which we all need to adjust to it because it won't go away.
 

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Beauty is fleeting.
 

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Advice from the old lady:

Now I realize I’m an outlier...but I’m having a blast in my 50s. A straight up blast. Obviously it won’t be like this forever, but that’s Ok. My friends, men I date, and I all have been there done that on the marriage & kids thing, everybody has money and life experience and I’m surrounded by my children, who are well adjusted, and a seriously cool circle of friends that are fun & adventurous and supportive.

Its cool to take a trip for the weekend to hang with a friend (male or female) and enjoy their company. I have a great life & am really blessed & spoiled in many ways.

In the next 6-12 months I’m going to Hawaii to see a player buddy of mine and his gf (I introduced them), to Hong Kong to see my best high school girlfriend & her hubby of almost 30 years, to Austin, to Vegas, and once they open back up to NYC, LA and San Diego.

I’ll also go to VA Beach to see an old ex lover & how his restaurants are doing there. We’ve known each other 30 years this year and I trust him with my life.

So I cannot complain. Life is rich and full of joy. And the people I run with feel the same way, men and women...

The man I’m seeing is recently divorced and he’s like Wow. I should’ve done this 10 years ago...He always has a giant smile on his face & he tells me his friends & clients are like “What’s gotten into you?...You’re happy!!!”

He’s like Yes. Yes I am. Lmao.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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