AureliusMaximus
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Welp.. I stumbled across this video...
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Why men are happier than women in the 40ties and above...
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Men don’t look back over a life of regret when they enter their late 30’s 40’s like women do. Women have their whole lives ahead of them in their teens and 20’s, and sometimes even into their 30’s and most squander it. Men however get better with age and learn form past experiences and become overall happier as they get more successful as they age.
Grinderman
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"Men age like fine wine, whereas women age like milk"
Women past the wall believing they are still desirable, even thinking they are 7's, 8's, 9's , 10's = delusional.
Women past the wall believing they are still desirable, even thinking they are 7's, 8's, 9's , 10's = delusional.
Yes
This mirage will still go on as long as there are weak thirsty simps out there validating and giving these women attention unfortunately...
But the smart ones will eventually figure this mirage out the older they get.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Machine10033
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Girl that was a couple of years ahead of me in highschool was a 10... smoking... did modeling. She was also got around with a ton of guys... attention wh0re. If you go to get Facebook page when she was younger every selfie she posted had hundreds of comments “ gorgeous”, “stunning”, “sexy”.... on and on with simps! Now that she’s in her 40’s... she’s still an attention wh0re... but all her pics get a few likes.... usually her relatives now and her girlfriends.... In her 40’s the sun is setting... if not down !
AureliusMaximus
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If not the internet miraculously implodes by itself or some hacker blows it up, (Which never will happen); that behavior is here to stay forever. It's the new paradigm and reality which we all need to adjust to it because it won't go away.
wifehunter
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Beauty is fleeting.
Mike32ct
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Everybody ages, but men typically have better (and more extensive) copes than women do.
Work, hobbies, investing etc vs get some cats (or a dog) and join a book club.
Work, hobbies, investing etc vs get some cats (or a dog) and join a book club.
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Advice from the old lady:
Now I realize I’m an outlier...but I’m having a blast in my 50s. A straight up blast. Obviously it won’t be like this forever, but that’s Ok. My friends, men I date, and I all have been there done that on the marriage & kids thing, everybody has money and life experience and I’m surrounded by my children, who are well adjusted, and a seriously cool circle of friends that are fun & adventurous and supportive.
Its cool to take a trip for the weekend to hang with a friend (male or female) and enjoy their company. I have a great life & am really blessed & spoiled in many ways.
In the next 6-12 months I’m going to Hawaii to see a player buddy of mine and his gf (I introduced them), to Hong Kong to see my best high school girlfriend & her hubby of almost 30 years, to Austin, to Vegas, and once they open back up to NYC, LA and San Diego.
I’ll also go to VA Beach to see an old ex lover & how his restaurants are doing there. We’ve known each other 30 years this year and I trust him with my life.
So I cannot complain. Life is rich and full of joy. And the people I run with feel the same way, men and women...
The man I’m seeing is recently divorced and he’s like Wow. I should’ve done this 10 years ago...He always has a giant smile on his face & he tells me his friends & clients are like “What’s gotten into you?...You’re happy!!!”
He’s like Yes. Yes I am. Lmao.
Now I realize I’m an outlier...but I’m having a blast in my 50s. A straight up blast. Obviously it won’t be like this forever, but that’s Ok. My friends, men I date, and I all have been there done that on the marriage & kids thing, everybody has money and life experience and I’m surrounded by my children, who are well adjusted, and a seriously cool circle of friends that are fun & adventurous and supportive.
Its cool to take a trip for the weekend to hang with a friend (male or female) and enjoy their company. I have a great life & am really blessed & spoiled in many ways.
In the next 6-12 months I’m going to Hawaii to see a player buddy of mine and his gf (I introduced them), to Hong Kong to see my best high school girlfriend & her hubby of almost 30 years, to Austin, to Vegas, and once they open back up to NYC, LA and San Diego.
I’ll also go to VA Beach to see an old ex lover & how his restaurants are doing there. We’ve known each other 30 years this year and I trust him with my life.
So I cannot complain. Life is rich and full of joy. And the people I run with feel the same way, men and women...
The man I’m seeing is recently divorced and he’s like Wow. I should’ve done this 10 years ago...He always has a giant smile on his face & he tells me his friends & clients are like “What’s gotten into you?...You’re happy!!!”
He’s like Yes. Yes I am. Lmao.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.