"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Why Me? sosuave article

kona

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Do you think that actually works? It seems like something an afc would say....

(see why me? tip on sosuave's front page)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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It all depends on the delivery-tone and timing of when you ask.
 

DJ_in_making

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I can understand why you see this as AFC. It kinda sounds like

"Why are u dating me? I'm shocked"

But I could see the other person's perspective too. If she starts answering the question she'll be convincing herself of how great u are.
So like the guy above me said, the delivery. Don't make it sound like "my G-d, what do you see in me?"
 

LongDrinkofWater

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This is a very useful thing to ask. I've used it on several occasions, and a couple of times I never would have anticipated the answer. I've learned a lot about myself, and just as importantly, how I'm perceived by women.
Also, be prepared to handle the ensuing compliment with style.
 
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