"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Why Me? sosuave article

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Do you think that actually works? It seems like something an afc would say....

(see why me? tip on sosuave's front page)
 

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It all depends on the delivery-tone and timing of when you ask.
 
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I can understand why you see this as AFC. It kinda sounds like

"Why are u dating me? I'm shocked"

But I could see the other person's perspective too. If she starts answering the question she'll be convincing herself of how great u are.
So like the guy above me said, the delivery. Don't make it sound like "my G-d, what do you see in me?"
 
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This is a very useful thing to ask. I've used it on several occasions, and a couple of times I never would have anticipated the answer. I've learned a lot about myself, and just as importantly, how I'm perceived by women.
Also, be prepared to handle the ensuing compliment with style.
 
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