why makeing them chase, works.

[check_mate_kid_uk]

Its very simple, if you do not give them the attention they want, they will try and win your attention, they will go out of there way to try and get it. For one, they feel frustrated but on the most part, the fact that they are trying to make you like them, makes them like you!

It is like the story where the man was hanging of the edge of the cliff and god said "let go and i will save you" you basicly need to be willing to loose the girl, to get her.

 

[WesCottII]

True, good point. But you must remember to demonstrate value first.

 

[check_mate_kid_uk]

True, good point. But you must remember to demonstrate value first.

Yeah, with out value, you have nothing, value is best demonstrated with out too much attention on 'just her' For you to not pay much attention to her, you have to be willing to let her go, which is easier said then done, this is why you need to have sevral options.

 

[bbestar]

Never worked for me

 

[insanity]

so true. the more the moose leaves the trail, the more the hunter chases.
whats always this bs with men always pursuing women. women are the ones who know the first five minutes if they'll sleep with you. value is essiential, but every girl is different in what they value.

basically if you give to much at first, it comes off as desperate. stay cool.

 

[Jamo]

what if

The girl is making the effort in the first place (and she is hot and all the stuff you like in a girl). Is it prudent to follow this?

 

[check_mate_kid_uk]

Sure, there can be mutual effort from both sides, and things will work, this is how it ussualy happens. But have you never tryed chaseing a girl that does not like you, have you noticed how infatuated you start to feel.

 

[Bloke]

Keep in kind fellas... this only works if she's attracted you already... but so true.

 

[Reiki]

Indeed, its also far more fun to watch. Remember though, leave a trail for her to follow, if there is no trail, there is no chase.

 

[check_mate_kid_uk]

Keep in kind fellas... this only works if she's attracted you already... but so true.

Yes, but what i was showing originaly is that talking to a girl has nothing to do with attraction, spending time with a girl is how a girl that is attracted to you will fall in love with you, but like i said before, you here girls saying they fancy a certain guy yet they have never spoken to him.