"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Why Loveless Marriage is So Common in Japan [ENG CC]

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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The only reason it's loveless is because the guys are overworked like slaves, they work 12 hour days and have no energy once they are home.

The first girls problems would be solved if he didnt need to work so much and if he didnt cheat on his wife.
 

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There are alot of problems in Japan but i love the food, the culture, etc. Will watch this later. Birthrate has been low there for a few decades.
 

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There are alot of problems in Japan but i love the food, the culture, etc. Will watch this later. Birthrate has been low there for a few decades.
How has a reduced birthrate affected the population growth if any, decrease in population as a result of less child birth?
 

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How has a reduced birthrate affected the population growth if any, decrease in population as a result of less child birth?
Decrease in birthrate is the straightforward reason of a decrease of population, assuming no immigration. In welfare states, inverted age population demographics puts a strain on younger working people; more tax burden on the newer generation which means less resources available for children.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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It’s a fallacy to suggest romantic love is even the point of marriage.
True, really. Romantic love is another expectation placed on couples by our modern society.
So many expectations in our modern world set us up to fail.
 
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