"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Why losers keep saying that meeting girls ONLINE/MYSPACE doesn't work
- Thread starter Real
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
fresh_to_death
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Getting chicks off the internet is old news. Chicks meeting guys on the internet is old news. Who the **** doesn't use MySpace to get laid? LOL.
I guess it's a generation thing or something.
fresh_to_death said:
good analogy, because the end result of the madden game is to WIN THE GAME -and I consider it a win when i have 3 **** buddies who give me pvssy on demand, all of who I met on myspace, the end justifies the mean
and those that fail at things are those that aren't doing their job properly
Alkali said:
hey man trust me i understand that I can go and meet 10 girls right now in the next 20 minutes, and through myspace, it would probably take me a week to meet 10 girls. However, myspace gives you a way to filter through girls who are not interested in meeting you before you even meet them. This way, when i meet those 10 girls in 1 week, I can end up hooking up with most of them, because I know that the second we see each other and say hi, i know we already are into each other (otherwise the girl wouldn't have wanted to meet me). When running cold approaches in person, you got no idea who wants to meet you or not, so myspace is just more efficient.
BUT
everything I just said doesn't mean that if you see a gorgeous girl on the street that you shouldn't approach her. Never let an opportunity go by
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Nexus Polaris
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Women look at pictures as much as guys do. If they don't find you at least some level of physically attractive, often times they won't even bother with your message. It doesn't matter what you said in it.
In real life, you can be just as ugly, but if you know what you're doing, you won't give the girl the option of not hearing you out.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Francisco d'Anconia
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yes HE is.Francisco d'Anconia said:
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I have couple friends that both got their girlfriends straight off of facebook.
The only thing I can say is, she'll probally take real life interactions to be more important that online ones. As most people do. So meet her in person as soon as you can.
