"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Why losers keep saying that meeting girls ONLINE/MYSPACE doesn't work

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TonyWongButOhSoRite said:
I think you are the one who is the loser im afraid. Continue talking to mexican grandads and I'll just be a loser and try and pick up real life women. Idiot.


feels pretty "real life" to me when im cvming inside that pvssy, so wtf are you talking about??
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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You guys knocking meeting chicks online remind of the guys you play in Madden who like to jack the difficulty level up to All Madden, play 15 minute quarters, not allow time outs, not allow going for it on 4th down, not allow you to pick any team with a rating over 80, not allow you to play with the same teams, constantly whine about everything that goes wrong for them, YET THEY RUN THE SAME 5 PLAYS FROM THE SAME FORMATION ALL GAME LONG. All of that for no good reason.

Getting chicks off the internet is old news. Chicks meeting guys on the internet is old news. Who the **** doesn't use MySpace to get laid? LOL.

I guess it's a generation thing or something.
 

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fresh_to_death said:
You guys knocking meeting chicks online remind of the guys you play in Madden who like to jack the difficulty level up to All Madden, play 15 minute quarters, not allow time outs, not allow going for it on 4th down, not allow you to pick any team with a rating over 80, not allow you to play with the same teams, constantly whine about everything that goes wrong for them, YET THEY RUN THE SAME 5 PLAYS FROM THE SAME FORMATION ALL GAME LONG. All of that for no good reason.

Getting chicks off the internet is old news. Chicks meeting guys on the internet is old news. Who the **** doesn't use MySpace to get laid? LOL.

I guess it's a generation thing or something.

good analogy, because the end result of the madden game is to WIN THE GAME -and I consider it a win when i have 3 **** buddies who give me pvssy on demand, all of who I met on myspace, the end justifies the mean

and those that fail at things are those that aren't doing their job properly
 

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I never knocked it; I'm just saying there are better ways lol.

Why plough a field with a spoon when your yak is right over there?
 

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Alkali said:
I never knocked it; I'm just saying there are better ways lol.

Why plough a field with a spoon when your yak is right over there?

hey man trust me i understand that I can go and meet 10 girls right now in the next 20 minutes, and through myspace, it would probably take me a week to meet 10 girls. However, myspace gives you a way to filter through girls who are not interested in meeting you before you even meet them. This way, when i meet those 10 girls in 1 week, I can end up hooking up with most of them, because I know that the second we see each other and say hi, i know we already are into each other (otherwise the girl wouldn't have wanted to meet me). When running cold approaches in person, you got no idea who wants to meet you or not, so myspace is just more efficient.

BUT

everything I just said doesn't mean that if you see a gorgeous girl on the street that you shouldn't approach her. Never let an opportunity go by
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Your also ignoring the fact that some of the girls that shot you down on myspace

may

have taken you up in person.

Higher risk, higher reward.
 

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Alkali said:
Your also ignoring the fact that some of the girls that shot you down on myspace

may

have taken you up in person.

Higher risk, higher reward.

or vice versa, maybe some girl in person wouldn't talk to me if i didnt approach her smooth enough or wasn't dressed fresh enough, but on myspace she sees my pics and gives me her screen name

i do see your point though
 

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We've been over this. Online dating puts lesser attractive guys at a disadvantage because even if they have all the game in the world, they often times don't even get a chance to use any of it.

Women look at pictures as much as guys do. If they don't find you at least some level of physically attractive, often times they won't even bother with your message. It doesn't matter what you said in it.

In real life, you can be just as ugly, but if you know what you're doing, you won't give the girl the option of not hearing you out.
 

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Whatever works for you I guess.

Stay on myspace.. you'll pick up the occasional sex offender or two at some point.
Who said all fo this guys advice was bull****? Lies!


All the girls I know get creep out when guys hit on them via myspace. Especially the 10-years-older kinds.
 

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Nexus Polaris said:
In real life, you can be just as ugly, but if you know what you're doing, you won't give the girl the option of not hearing you out.

if your ugly and you cold approach and hit on a hot girl, you will get dismissed right away

nobody is making ugly guys be ugly, ugly guys are simply too stupid and too lazy to go and work on their appearance
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Id love to see unreal's myspace or facebook...
 

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He's baaaaackkkk.... :nervous:
 

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vse ponyatno, ti suka.
Eto ti im mojesh govorit' kakoy ti krutoy,
a ya takih piderov kak ti znau.

Translation: unreal is a bytch.
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
He's baaaaackkkk.... :nervous:
yes HE is.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I don't see anything wrong with doing it online.

I have couple friends that both got their girlfriends straight off of facebook.

The only thing I can say is, she'll probally take real life interactions to be more important that online ones. As most people do. So meet her in person as soon as you can.
 

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a true skip posting. he may be banned again and come up with Real2theTop next time.
 

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I knew it was him from the moment i saw the title of this post. I mean c'mon, who else argue's so passionately about online dating ESPECIALLY through Myspace. But anyway, like someone said before me, whatever works for you is for you and might not be for everyone else.
 
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