Why Just 1% Succeed. The Habits That Make the Difference.

BadBoy89

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I think its home for a lot of men. The world is designed to keep a man insecure. If he's insecure, he keeps buying and consuming to make him FEEL secure. That's good for society because society's model is built on growth. Now imagine if men were secure and didn't need to buy products for themselves or things to impress women. How long would society last?

Your thoughts?

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THE DAY YOU FINALLY WAKE UP TO YOUR WORTH, THE WORLD WILL TREMBLE


There comes a moment — rare, sacred, electric — when a man or woman finally sees their worth. And I mean truly sees it. Not through the lens of external validation, likes, promotions, or compliments, but from a deep, undeniable place within.

The day you stop doubting yourself is the day the world around you begins to panic.

Why? Because society, as we know it, is built on your insecurity.

From the moment you take your first breath, you are conditioned to believe you are not enough.

You’re told to be thinner, smarter, richer, more attractive, more productive, more… everything.

You are subtly trained to chase a version of yourself that exists only in the marketing department of someone else’s business plan.

And as long as you feel like you’re lacking, you will keep buying. Keep obeying. Keep consuming instead of creating.

This is not by accident. It’s by design.

The machinery of modern culture is fueled by cognitive dissonance — the painful gap between who you feel you are and who you’ve been told you should be. And into that gap pours every ad, every false image of perfection, every post meant to make you believe that you’re behind.

But here’s the truth: The moment you realize you don’t need to be fixed, they lose their grip on you.

That’s when everything changes.

When you stop trying to “be liked” by everyone, you will quickly find out who really respects you. Spoiler alert: many won’t. And that’s good news.

Because when you stop dancing for approval, you start walking your own path.

A CONFIDENT SOUL IS UNCONTROLLABLE

  • The secure person doesn’t consume to feel worthy — they create from a place of worth.
  • The secure person doesn’t obey blindly — they choose consciously.
  • The secure person doesn’t need to please everyone — they please the right ones.
  • The secure person doesn’t crave attention — they command respect.
And when you finally stop asking for permission to be yourself, you will find yourself offending people. And again, that’s exactly how you know you’re doing something right.

Because your value is not measured by applause. It’s measured by whether you can look in the mirror and be proud of the person staring back.

12 BRUTAL TRUTHS TO BUILD A STRONGER, FREER, MORE UNSTOPPABLE YOU

  1. Keep your mouth shut. Not everything needs to be shared. Energy leaks where attention goes.
  2. Do not tell people your plans until they materialize. Protect your vision until it’s ready to walk on its own.
  3. Never expect to receive just because you gave. Give because it’s who you are, not because you’re keeping score.
  4. Every day, get up and get better. No excuses. No shortcuts. Just relentless forward motion.
  5. Be radically grateful. Gratitude turns what you have into enough and what you want into reality.
  6. Let go. Often, what you refuse to release is what’s holding you back the most.
  7. If you want to buy things without looking at price tags, stop looking at the clock and start working your ass off. Success costs what laziness cannot afford.
  8. God puts people in your path for a reason. Learn the lesson. Bless the experience. Move forward.
  9. When success starts knocking, so does the devil. Stay vigilant. Protect your energy. Don’t trade your soul for a spotlight.
  10. You will upset people by doing what’s best for you. Do it anyway.
  11. You will lose friends. But real ones will never leave. Truth filters out the fake.
  12. Life doesn’t get easier. You get stronger. And strength isn’t loud. It’s calm. It’s steady. It endures.
You don’t need another course.
You don’t need another product.
You don’t need another external fix.

You need a decision — a violent commitment to yourself.
To rise. To reclaim. To stop playing small.

Because your greatness is not in question.
Only your belief in it is.

Be the one who finally breaks free.
Be the one who stops apologizing.
Be the one who lives fully, unapologetically, and wide awake.


The world needs your fire.
Light it.
 

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I don't know why they want us to be selfish, basically more narcissistic than we are.
Then we also lament the fact people are narcissistic out there.
 

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I don't know why they want us to be selfish, basically more narcissistic than we are.
Then we also lament the fact people are narcissistic out there.
It all sounds like grandiose delusions, honestly.
The world needs your fire? So many people have come and gone, yet the world goes on without them. If they're lucky, someone notices.
Of course we can all do better for ourselves. I don't think it's necessary to abandon all humility to achieve that.
 

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It all sounds like grandiose delusions, honestly.
The world needs your fire? So many people have come and gone, yet the world goes on without them. If they're lucky, someone notices.
Of course we can all do better for ourselves. I don't think it's necessary to abandon all humility to achieve that.
I don’t think anyone wants to live in a world of anarchy, not even the anarchists themselves
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

Read more...

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I love this.

Imo the "redpill" NEEDS to evolve towards something like this; the deeper meaning beyond the superficial shyte, and we should as "why" after the anwer and then another" why?"Women are "just" a superficial byproduct in the grand scheme of things, even tho a woman / women can give a man the ILLUSION that he "made it" in life.

Even here most still argue back and forth how to approach, open a set, what to say blah blah

But those things ( to use a boxing metaphor ) is like asking how do I knock someone out the ring TODAY. People chime in and say "left hook! No, uppercut! No right cross!


But the real answer is: by training daily, conditioning yourself to the max/ stamina , ofcourse training the basics( including the hook, jab and uppercut) but also by studying the game and life deeply, understanding human phycology AND physicality, eating right, staying away from distractions and temptation . In other words; that "simple "one thing you want (p00sy , the knock out) is a mere BYPRODUCT of being the best version you can be and your adventures

Annoying anwer, I know. Especially when you want a quick fix that works RIGHT NOW with Stacey as Stacey is already slipping away. But if you do approach the game on a deeper level you'll see that there will be an INFINITE amount of Staceys to choose from. They will come and go.

The latter also is the reason why I'm "against" marriage ,cohabitation, kids under not ideal / bad circumstances ( and I say that as a father !). Because you basically say to yourself "this is the best I can ever do in life ,no need to explore any further." And now you just might trap yourself in a situation while those things could've been experienced under MUCH better circumstances IF you would've pushed yourself harder.

Great post all together and I'll read it a couple of times to let it sink in.
 

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@BadBoy89 "From the moment you take your first breath, you are conditioned to believe you are not enough"

We're NOT "enough" in our raw, natural state. Becoming formidable requires conscious effort
i think that as women are aggresive and feel oppressed by everything, guys started copying the same thing becoming aggressive and feeling oppressed

this leads nowhere and is mostly in the mind not in reality
 

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i think that as women are aggresive and feel oppressed by everything, guys started copying the same thing becoming aggressive and feeling oppressed
I don't endorse viewing oneself as an oppressed person, nonetheless "aggression" can be defined in a few different ways. Being vigorous in pursuit of one's self-development included
 
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