g g g unit
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well???
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Because it is a forum geared toward the betterment of the male interaction with women perhaps?g g g unit said:well???
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Well this is the "anything else" part of the forum and besides how are you suppose to be successfull in the world if you dont know anything about it???Le Parisien said:1) Talking about politics has nothing to do with attracting girls and women
I second that. It will split members and the advice will suffer. I am sure Allen thought about it or have seen it first hand on other forums when he created this one.Centaurion said:Thing is, some (most) members, and not only on this board, tend to hold grudges. A flamewar in one forum tend to spray into others as well.
Fair enough its just a shame we cant be adults and have a mature conversation about politics without turining this board into a school playground.DJDamage said:I second that. It will split members and the advice will suffer. I am sure Allen thought about it or have seen it first hand on other forums when he created this one.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Actually your question was a legitimate one, so no one would flame you on that.g g g unit said:Fair enough its just a shame we cant be adults and have a mature conversation about politics without turining this board into a school playground.
P.S Im actually suprised i didnt get flamed for bringing it up.
Deep Dish said:Politics (and religion) always conjure up a special kind of debate. We could have a civil debate on car mechanics, aviation history, and whether Angelina Jolie would make a good screw (yes)... But nearly the moment politics or religion arguments light up the switch board, the argument becomes exceptionally irrational. You have name-calling, mud slinging, ad hominem attacks, and discussing everything but the subject at hand. The actual "argument" stops after a few posts and the rest is an inferno.
Plus, politics (and religion) are guaranteed to turn into a fight every time, whereas for practically any other subject it's up to luck.