This is a forum of guys giving advice on dating, sex, guy things, etc... Why bother with a censor filter? The words being censored are words we all use everyday. Even girlproblems.com, which is full of 13 year olds, doesn't use a censor filter. It makes this forum look like a bunch of politically correct wimps. Does anyone agree that it should be changed?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Why is there a censor filter here?
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
I agree, this is bull****!!!
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Nobody every hit a home run sittin on the bench
Cedric "The Entertainer"
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Nobody every hit a home run sittin on the bench
Cedric "The Entertainer"
aim- oakraiderz2
[email protected]
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
loveprefect
Senior Don Juan
i support the filter thingy...keep this place in a peaceful manner.
FU<K YOU ALL
AZZHOLE
BVLL****
just do it this way
FU<K YOU ALL
AZZHOLE
BVLL****
just do it this way
loveprefect
Senior Don Juan
caught me again...
BULLSH!T
BULLSH!T
Don Juan the Fantastic
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If there were no censor filter, then we wouldn't have such endearing terms as "fvck", one of my favorites. The v instead of a u lets me pretend for just a moment that I'm actually in ancient Rome when I'm reading here. So ******* *** ***** **** the ***** and **** **** *** **** yourself with a ******* massive **** ****** ****** ***!
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Nicholas Hill
Master Don Juan
Here in work there is a swear sensor on the internet. Maybe its a good thing to blank out swear words. It stops us readers getting into trouble!
CableLight
Master Don Juan
That, and accourding to Protective Mother Weekly, children under the age of 18 shoot each other if they hear the word "fvck."
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CableLight
- Hey, I dunno what my name means either
"Always remember those you love. Even in death, no one is ever truely gone as long as they are remembered."
Life is the hardest teacher. For she gives the test first, and the lesson after.
SexPDX
Master Don Juan
Drew, it's not that I CAN'T have a discussion without profanity, I just don't like the choice being made FOR me.
Personally I like to use profanity (in moderation of course) because of the emphatic effect it tends to have on certain statements I make in my articles.
Censor or no censor, my posts may at any time contain vulgar language and if you don't like it, don't ****ing read them.
Nick
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- The seductionist formerly known as trickynick
You either own the game or it owns you.
~"Pon atencion al latido de tu corazon...y el ritmo de tu respiracion...como te permites llegar a ser completamente llevada...por la conexion que esta tomando lugar." ~
[This message has been edited by SexPDX (edited 07-08-2002).]
Page
Master Don Juan
Shut the **** up.
Also, whatever happened to freedom of speech?
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.