"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Why is the b1tch doing this?

Jariel

Jariel

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For the record, it has all come out now and she has finally told me her problem.

I'd ignored her and avoided her last week, but then she decided to meet up with me unexpectedly one day and hang out for a while. We were cool and polite with each other, but then the following night I received a drunk text message from her insulting me and accusing me of treating people like sh1t. I ignored it and then she sent me another one telling me she doesn't like me and doesn't trust me because of something I said to her ages ago.

I won't go into detail, but I "called her on her bullsh1t" one day and suffice to say it was something that really hurt her. She acted cool at the time, so I had no idea that it had been eating away at her and she secretly hated me for it. I have apologised and we have had a talk. It seems like all the games I've been playing, my "confident" attitude and the way I play on my social proof have made her feel like sh1t. I don't know what will happen now, but we're talking again.

I've been visiting this board for a year now and I now conclude that all games, charades and strategies don't work. They've messed me up and they've messed other people up so no more game playing or strategizing for me!

All these strategies and fascades do is give the illusion of confidence and that is weak at best. My advice is to learn to accept your true nature because that's the only way you can truly respect yourself and develop genuine confidence.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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it's actually pretty simple.

She is using the weapon of choice in the battle of the sexes, and that is her *****, or better yet, the though of "your *****" being banged by another guy.

It's sad in two ways. first, most guys fall for it. Secondly, it's usually the girls last tactic to get to a guy.

Only freaks do this, so just laugh it off and don't let it get to you, serously, because if it does, she won the battle.

The best thing you can do is get another GF and be happy. NOthing will make her madder. Not insults, not jokes about her, nothing.
 
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