"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Why is so easy to talk to unattractive girls lol
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
On_the_Top
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You find it difficult to talk to attractive girls because you have built up a hype inside of you that makes you want them for sex, social proof etc. Basically, you get stage fright. You are afraid to say the wrong thing or give the wrong impression, because then you won't get from them what you want. You're basically trying to filter out everything you do as to not offend them or turn them off in any way.
That is a terrible attitude to have.
Instead, think of yourself as the prize in all situations.
- you are doing the ugly girl a favor by talking to her because she's ugly - you got that part mastered.
- you are doing the attractive girl a favor by talking to her because her personality is lackluster. Additionally, she's downright average when compared to some other hot girls, who are downright average when compared to other hot girls...etc.....
So, the rule is:
You are above all women you talk to.
Tha Realnezz
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So they have are less prone to be approachable.
Average-ugly chics WANT that atterntion and crave it so a decent looking guy with any game at all can usually sweep up with them.
If standards were lowered (on both sides)then most people have no problem getting laid.
If you're the type of guys who just want to get laid. & nothing else.Then you might wanna lower your standards.
Not too many Jessica Alba's giving it out like candy to broke,ugly guys with no game.
At least in the real world.
diablo
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And you're happy about this? Please, if you're going to come in here basking in the glory of having found an obese woman to spend your time with, and climb on top of, then at least keep it to one thread instead of making multiple threads all essentially dealing with the same issue.Originally posted by knight56
Why is so easy to talk to unattractive girls lol..really is ...
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=66338
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
DeathDealer
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If you feel confident and open talking to girls that are below your level of perceived attractiveness - Girls who give you the run around on dates (cancel dates, never return phone calls, mind games) see you the same way. They don't feel compelled to OWE YOU ANYTHING just like you don't feel compelled to OWE THE UG/FG ANYTHING. That's why you should learn how to treat all girls the same, except treat the ones you are interested in NICER.
Usually when I meet up a girl whether pretty or not, I always think there is something wrong with her. And in most cases it always turns out that the more attractive a girl is, the more psycho she really is.. it's kinda like her makeup covers not only the physical imperfections but her mental ones too.