"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Why is so easy to talk to unattractive girls lol
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
On_the_Top
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You find it difficult to talk to attractive girls because you have built up a hype inside of you that makes you want them for sex, social proof etc. Basically, you get stage fright. You are afraid to say the wrong thing or give the wrong impression, because then you won't get from them what you want. You're basically trying to filter out everything you do as to not offend them or turn them off in any way.
That is a terrible attitude to have.
Instead, think of yourself as the prize in all situations.
- you are doing the ugly girl a favor by talking to her because she's ugly - you got that part mastered.
- you are doing the attractive girl a favor by talking to her because her personality is lackluster. Additionally, she's downright average when compared to some other hot girls, who are downright average when compared to other hot girls...etc.....
So, the rule is:
You are above all women you talk to.
Tha Realnezz
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So they have are less prone to be approachable.
Average-ugly chics WANT that atterntion and crave it so a decent looking guy with any game at all can usually sweep up with them.
If standards were lowered (on both sides)then most people have no problem getting laid.
If you're the type of guys who just want to get laid. & nothing else.Then you might wanna lower your standards.
Not too many Jessica Alba's giving it out like candy to broke,ugly guys with no game.
At least in the real world.
diablo
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And you're happy about this? Please, if you're going to come in here basking in the glory of having found an obese woman to spend your time with, and climb on top of, then at least keep it to one thread instead of making multiple threads all essentially dealing with the same issue.Originally posted by knight56
Why is so easy to talk to unattractive girls lol..really is ...
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=66338
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
DeathDealer
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If you feel confident and open talking to girls that are below your level of perceived attractiveness - Girls who give you the run around on dates (cancel dates, never return phone calls, mind games) see you the same way. They don't feel compelled to OWE YOU ANYTHING just like you don't feel compelled to OWE THE UG/FG ANYTHING. That's why you should learn how to treat all girls the same, except treat the ones you are interested in NICER.
Usually when I meet up a girl whether pretty or not, I always think there is something wrong with her. And in most cases it always turns out that the more attractive a girl is, the more psycho she really is.. it's kinda like her makeup covers not only the physical imperfections but her mental ones too.