"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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HeyPachuco!

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That for the SMALL percentage of guys on here, that pull dates and post a thread about forwarding it through, get shut down?

But then the guys who post ''Hi there, first post, been a long lurker on the forum, how do I get this girl'' or ''girl help!" get multiple posts and advice? when 90% of the time they haven't even read the benefits of the Bible to ask these questions?

I noticed on one of The_Comeback_Kid's threads, he had a date, asked for some input and not ONE of the senior users put there 2cents in atall after he jotted down another 2 comments, but yet I saw seniors on easy Q&A's from noobies?

You would think that for the guys that are actually in-the-field pulling would get a bit of input from experienced users. Its like abit of haterism if you know of something that could help, but just cant be asked to note it down?

Whats up? ...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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BigWillyStyle

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Maybe it's due to the fact that people feel those guys who post, "Help! I'm a 30-yr-old Virgin!" require more help than the guy that has some experience and just wants to bang girl number 22?

I've always found posts such as the above-mentioned example more intriguing. And I'm sure it's the same for others on here.
 

Scars

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Where is the thread located? I can try and offer advice. I generally only reply to threads where the person is in dire need of advice, as BigWillyStyle stated. It's better to break them down before you build them back up.

I generally wont put my two cents unless the thread is being neglected. I tend not to offer advice after it's been replied to 8 times because there's usually already some decent advice given and I would just be repeating what other people said. Or if people are giving horrible advice then I will say something and usually spark a debate. However I don't get the chance to check the forums as much as I would like to, but if I log in and everythings been replied to then I won't usually posts. That's why I sometimes won't post for a couple days because the thread title isn't something catchy enough for me to look further into reading but I see there's already a plenty of replies so I won't waste my time.

That's my deal. Then again, I don't consider myself a "senior" poster either.
 

WC2

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On the contrary, I'd much rather help men who are further along in the game, but it's all too common that men feel the need to post their WHOLE night without a summary.

No offense, but I'm not going to sit here for hours on the internet and read about some dude's whole night. If you want advice, it's best to summarize and then ask your questions.

If there were more hours in the day I'd love to read through everything, but there simple isn't :(
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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