"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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HeyPachuco!

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That for the SMALL percentage of guys on here, that pull dates and post a thread about forwarding it through, get shut down?

But then the guys who post ''Hi there, first post, been a long lurker on the forum, how do I get this girl'' or ''girl help!" get multiple posts and advice? when 90% of the time they haven't even read the benefits of the Bible to ask these questions?

I noticed on one of The_Comeback_Kid's threads, he had a date, asked for some input and not ONE of the senior users put there 2cents in atall after he jotted down another 2 comments, but yet I saw seniors on easy Q&A's from noobies?

You would think that for the guys that are actually in-the-field pulling would get a bit of input from experienced users. Its like abit of haterism if you know of something that could help, but just cant be asked to note it down?

Whats up? ...
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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BigWillyStyle

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Maybe it's due to the fact that people feel those guys who post, "Help! I'm a 30-yr-old Virgin!" require more help than the guy that has some experience and just wants to bang girl number 22?

I've always found posts such as the above-mentioned example more intriguing. And I'm sure it's the same for others on here.
 

Scars

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Where is the thread located? I can try and offer advice. I generally only reply to threads where the person is in dire need of advice, as BigWillyStyle stated. It's better to break them down before you build them back up.

I generally wont put my two cents unless the thread is being neglected. I tend not to offer advice after it's been replied to 8 times because there's usually already some decent advice given and I would just be repeating what other people said. Or if people are giving horrible advice then I will say something and usually spark a debate. However I don't get the chance to check the forums as much as I would like to, but if I log in and everythings been replied to then I won't usually posts. That's why I sometimes won't post for a couple days because the thread title isn't something catchy enough for me to look further into reading but I see there's already a plenty of replies so I won't waste my time.

That's my deal. Then again, I don't consider myself a "senior" poster either.
 

WC2

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On the contrary, I'd much rather help men who are further along in the game, but it's all too common that men feel the need to post their WHOLE night without a summary.

No offense, but I'm not going to sit here for hours on the internet and read about some dude's whole night. If you want advice, it's best to summarize and then ask your questions.

If there were more hours in the day I'd love to read through everything, but there simple isn't :(
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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