"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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why is it that sometimes your walking behind a girl and......

inferno-blade

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they look over your shoulder at you what is that about i dont get it, but it happens all the time:confused:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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brenbaus

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why dont you ask them instead of asking us (like we know)
 

Zod

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Over analyzing.

I look over my shoulder all the time, it's a good way to match eyes with someone, and also to make sure some dumbass wanna-be-friend sophmore / freshmen doesn't tear my tits off...Immature *****es...

Do yourself a favor, never do the nipple twisting whatever the **** you call it. It doesn't make you friends, and definently doesn't make the person you are doing it to look cool.

off-topic!
 

Inquire

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they wanna see who's behind them. they don't want a rapist now do they.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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08aisaac

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I remember my nipple twisting days. But we used clamps and ****. You can never be too careful.

And when I am walking along, soemtimes I will look behind me, to see if a chick is following me, and then if a chick is behind me, I will usually coment on her stalking habits.

But you are talking about girls turning around and looking at you. Why does it matter. She's probaly interested, and just searching out guys, so say something to her or something.
 

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Originally posted by Inquire
they wanna see who's behind them. they don't want a rapist now do they.
Yeah, like's someone's really going to rape them with about 750 people in the hallway moving to their next class.
 

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Originally posted by Viper
Yeah, like's someone's really going to rape them with about 750 people in the hallway moving to their next class.
Make that 2000 for me.
 

Inquire

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Originally posted by Viper
Yeah, like's someone's really going to rape them with about 750 people in the hallway moving to their next class.
oh its at school, well tat changes everythang. they dont want an ugly person to be behind them so they lose some rep if a ugly person be walkin closely behind them, like they are part of the group. not sayin ur ugly or anythang.
 

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Nipple twisting is the gayest **** ever

also that circle thing that u make with your hands, and put by ur knee, and if they look at it you get to punch them....thats gay too
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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