"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Why is it that I never feel like I pushed myself hard enough?

Eph

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I know it doesn't mean much, but I never feel sore after a workout. The only time I can feel even slight soreness in my upper-body is the day after. Core workouts is a different story, I can feel pretty sore after one. But again, I know it shouldn't matter but I don't feel like I've accomplished anything unless I'm sore after. I just finished doing about 3 sets of pyramids (1-5 reps; pushups and pullups) - 2 with a 30lb weighted backpack - and I still don't feel like I did much of anything. Everything is either too easy or too hard for me, and believe me I struggled doing pullups and pushups with that weighted backpack.

I try to make sure my form is good, I try to make my workouts intense, but still nothing. Does my body just not have enough room for further muscular increases in size (and possibly strength)?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I occasionally have days where I feel like this, but the next training session I hit fvcking hard - cos I want that pain. I don't ever hurt directly after a session though, its always 1 -2 days after.

except for today, doms have kicked in now (roughly 12 hours after my chest session.)

I rarely get doms on my upper back nowadays either. legs I hit till my knees wobble and usally get some soreness there - but if I don't? I hit them hard as fvkkk the next time.


try changing up the excercises you do and hit some mad volume
 

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get your weight lower and make yourself pushed towards them to really get a good attention on you. make it simple
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Soreness is not a good indicator of how well you trained, and you should avoid the habit of depending on that feeling. Focus on progress and not how you feel after each workout. Did you get one more rep in your top set than you did last week? Did you do the same number of reps but add a little weight to the bar? As long as you're progressing, don't worry about the other crap.
 
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