Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Why is it so hard to maintain the TRUTH?

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Forty0ztoFreedom

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It really doesn't matter.

None of these girls. Not the past love. Not your 'soul mate.' Not the oneitus. Not the girl who gave you good reactions in the bar in front of your friends (who don't matter either). Not the girl who didn't return the text you sent 25 minutes ago. Not the flakes. Not the girl who once had high IL and won't meet you in a one-on-one setting. Not the methed out hooker who looked nothing like the ad on Craigs List.

None of them matter. Its amazing and laughable when you have that little epiphany.

The question is. WHY DOES IT GO AWAY?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Because you sub consicously spent YEARS thinking otherwise. So you got to get rid of that idea, COMPLETLEY, and be consicous of your thinking, ALWAYS. (At least for now, while you are chaning ideas). You just have to belieave in it, deeply, and really act accordingly. I mean 100%, you have to ingrain it. Maybe you don't belieave in it enough. You have to let go of your ego, completley, and like yourself, so you don't have to go outside needing others to like you. My advice is read posts by Interceptor, it sure helped me GREATLY in EXACTLY that kind of stuff. Keep doing inner game! I agree when people say that you can't change it overnight. It seemed a little defeatist at first, but to really ingrain that kind of stuff in your mindset, it DOES take time. (IMO). So you have to be a little patient sometimes, too...
 
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