"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Why is it so hard to maintain the TRUTH?

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Forty0ztoFreedom

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It really doesn't matter.

None of these girls. Not the past love. Not your 'soul mate.' Not the oneitus. Not the girl who gave you good reactions in the bar in front of your friends (who don't matter either). Not the girl who didn't return the text you sent 25 minutes ago. Not the flakes. Not the girl who once had high IL and won't meet you in a one-on-one setting. Not the methed out hooker who looked nothing like the ad on Craigs List.

None of them matter. Its amazing and laughable when you have that little epiphany.

The question is. WHY DOES IT GO AWAY?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Because you sub consicously spent YEARS thinking otherwise. So you got to get rid of that idea, COMPLETLEY, and be consicous of your thinking, ALWAYS. (At least for now, while you are chaning ideas). You just have to belieave in it, deeply, and really act accordingly. I mean 100%, you have to ingrain it. Maybe you don't belieave in it enough. You have to let go of your ego, completley, and like yourself, so you don't have to go outside needing others to like you. My advice is read posts by Interceptor, it sure helped me GREATLY in EXACTLY that kind of stuff. Keep doing inner game! I agree when people say that you can't change it overnight. It seemed a little defeatist at first, but to really ingrain that kind of stuff in your mindset, it DOES take time. (IMO). So you have to be a little patient sometimes, too...
 
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