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I thought it was technology and dating apps/internet. Man up is convenient way of saying be the 10% or a mass MTGOW/monk mode and stop buying into onlyfans, etc... to stifle the thirst demand that is wrecking everything?
like 50 cent is saying : “ get rich or die trying “

the thirst was before dating apps and social media , this “inventions” only gave the opportunity for all the thirst to mass up

my 2 cents are that rather being a simp , better go to escorts

but you see , again the problem is that most of the guys who are incell are also quite poor and can not afford going let”s say monthly to escorts

and now we come to the root cause of this stupidity that is happening , and the Truth is that guys instead of putting their minds to improve society , economy , science , fight a war etc , they started masturbating , smoking weed and playing on their play station

basically they lost contact with their manhood , and now , instead of stop smoking weed , masturbating and playing video games , they start saying that things are not fair , and start doing this even more

I am not pointing any fingers on anyone in particular , I am just describing the average guy

who the f8ck would like to spend time or have sex with this guy , when even his cat thinks that he is useless ?
 

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like 50 cent is saying : “ get rich or die trying “

the thirst was before dating apps and social media , this “inventions” only gave the opportunity for all the thirst to mass up

my 2 cents are that rather being a simp , better go to escorts

but you see , again the problem is that most of the guys who are incell are also quite poor and can not afford going let”s say monthly to escorts

and now we come to the root cause of this stupidity that is happening , and the Truth is that guys instead of putting their minds to improve society , economy , science , fight a war etc , they started masturbating , smoking weed and playing on their play station

basically they lost contact with their manhood , and now , instead of stop smoking weed , masturbating and playing video games , they start saying that things are not fair , and start doing this even more

I am not pointing any fingers on anyone in particular , I am just describing the average guy

who the f8ck would like to spend time or have sex with this guy , when even his cat thinks that he is useless ?
i have to agree with that. I have an older brother. Girls loved him when he was younger and now he’s a 30 year old fat video game addicted guy. He’s constantly complaining and he is mgtow. He has the potential but idk why he gave up on himself. Many men do that.
i think feminism and modern ideas definitely contributed to that. Men are raised in a femcentric society and those who aren’t women’s first choice just give up and live a ****ty life because what’s the point if women don’t like them? Their whole existence is based on female approval.
 

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like 50 cent is saying : “ get rich or die trying “

the thirst was before dating apps and social media , this “inventions” only gave the opportunity for all the thirst to mass up

my 2 cents are that rather being a simp , better go to escorts
How do you differentiate between a simp who is paying money on ONLYFANS to someone who is using an online escort who has an ONLYFANS account as well?

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but you see , again the problem is that most of the guys who are incell are also quite poor and can not afford going let”s say monthly to escorts
Like I said in many threads before, the reason I'm not seeing escorts is not because I can't afford them. If it was only about money then there would be no issue with me visiting one within the next hour, right? Its the other issues (ie escorts have demons that can attack you, they see lots of other guys and maybe you might bump into one on the way in or on the way out and feel sick about their set-up, it can destroy or undermine your relationship with God (if you have one)) that even if they were free, or I was paid to visit one, there would still be a reservation to visiting one.

Bigpapa said:
and now we come to the root cause of this stupidity that is happening , and the Truth is that guys instead of putting their minds to improve society , economy , science , fight a war etc , they started masturbating , smoking weed and playing on their play station

basically they lost contact with their manhood , and now , instead of stop smoking weed , masturbating and playing video games , they start saying that things are not fair , and start doing this even more
For the record, I don't smoke weed or play video games and that's an awful stereotype to make an assumption on people you don't know.
Masturbating, when and if it occurs, is because there is no girl period, not the other way around. But again, even that has "religious implications" that are contrary otherwise I'd have no issues behind that either. However, no masturbation has resulted in a nervous break-down that I can think of for about a month, while a visit to an escort actually has.

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I am not pointing any fingers on anyone in particular , I am just describing the average guy

who the f8ck would like to spend time or have sex with this guy , when even his cat thinks that he is useless ?
Again, its a form of victim blaming that I see on threads. I wonder if this victim blaming eases the chad-lite/chad conscience that they have it too easy with women so they make up all sorts of lies about incels so they feel less bad about them, or the extreme shallowness of the type of women they are seeing. Its their way of making sense of the rigged dating market.
 

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How do you differentiate between a simp who is paying money on ONLYFANS to someone who is using an online escort who has an ONLYFANS account as well?



Like I said in many threads before, the reason I'm not seeing escorts is not because I can't afford them. If it was only about money then there would be no issue with me visiting one within the next hour, right? Its the other issues (ie escorts have demons that can attack you, they see lots of other guys and maybe you might bump into one on the way in or on the way out and feel sick about their set-up, it can destroy or undermine your relationship with God (if you have one)) that even if they were free, or I was paid to visit one, there would still be a reservation to visiting one.



For the record, I don't smoke weed or play video games and that's an awful stereotype to make an assumption on people you don't know.
Masturbating, when and if it occurs, is because there is no girl period, not the other way around. But again, even that has "religious implications" that are contrary otherwise I'd have no issues behind that either. However, no masturbation has resulted in a nervous break-down that I can think of for about a month, while a visit to an escort actually has.



Again, its a form of victim blaming that I see on threads. I wonder if this victim blaming eases the chad-lite/chad conscience that they have it too easy with women so they make up all sorts of lies about incels so they feel less bad about them, or the extreme shallowness of the type of women they are seeing. Its their way of making sense of the rigged dating market.
well , I do not know your circumstances , but for sure if you would give your best , your Situation will overall improve

usually guys complain -> someone tells them to man up -> they start saying that they are victims and should not be bullied -> nothing changes

life is not about how hard you smash it , but about how many punches you take and still be up

no one likes loosers , and you can see this at looking at the legends and heroes that we celebrate and read about . All of them rose above their circumstances and eventually did something amazing

this is what is the difference between a man and a woman , not the sexual organ

remember , a woman will do whatever men let her do . If men do not have a problem with her hoeing around , then she will do it to maximize her mating strategy

this affects a lot of men , but women are not affected . On the contrary , for them is the best period ever
 

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Again, its a form of victim blaming that I see on threads. I wonder if this victim blaming eases the chad-lite/chad conscience that they have it too easy with women so they make up all sorts of lies about incels so they feel less bad about them, or the extreme shallowness of the type of women they are seeing. Its their way of making sense of the rigged dating market.
I don’t think it’s a guilt/conscience thing. Blackpill can be offensive to good looking guys for another reason, but I’d rather not go there lol.
 

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I don’t think it’s a guilt/conscience thing. Blackpill can be offensive to good looking guys for another reason, but I’d rather not go there lol.
Go on. What is the other reason? We are all anonymous.
 

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well , I do not know your circumstances , but for sure if you would give your best , your Situation will overall improve
That's right, you don't know. Yet its very easy for people to make assumptions on what they are because you are supposed to fit a profile. That is why it doesn't do a service to categorize anyone as playing video games, smoking weed, and make a portrayal that isn't simply true and can sound offensive to your target audience....otherwise you are just preaching the the choir right?
 

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I’ll put it this way.

When a normie or Chad/Chadlite criticizes a ‘cel guy, he is implying that the ‘cel guy hasn’t “earned” any success with women. He just plays video games and doesn’t take a shower, etc.

When the ‘cel guy comes back with “It’s all about looks,” the good looking guy is thinking “He’s suggesting that I didn’t ‘earn’ my success with women. He’s suggesting I just got lucky via the genetic lottery.” That’s the part that can (understandably) ruffle feathers.
 
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I’ll put it this way.

When a normie or Chad/Chadlite criticizes a ‘cel guy, he is implying that the ‘cel guy hasn’t “earned” any success with women. He just plays video games and doesn’t take a shower, etc.

When the ‘cel guy comes back with “It’s all about looks,” the good looking guy is thinking “He’s suggesting that I didn’t ‘earn’ my success with women. He’s suggesting I just got lucky via the genetic lottery.” That’s the part that can (understandably) ruffle feathers.
as a good looking guy , women bellow your smv will make it easier for you , while women at your smv or above still need to be seduced . They will not just throw themselves at you

plus , having game also puts you in a good position if you enter in an ltr

so by just saying that a guy that is good looking has it easier is a yes and no in the same time , as if you go way above your smv women will just ignore you ( and since they ignore you it is neither easier or harder , as you never got the opportunity to do your play )

and yes , a guy that is a 6 needs to put most of the times more effort in a 7 than a guy that is a 7 , but both of them still need to put effort .

the only guy that will put the least effort is a guy who is a 9 or a 10

A guy that is a 5 or bellow will be basically in existent

this is a general overview , as things can differ from case to case , but usually going more than 2 points above your smv is a hail marry . Sometimes you get lucky , but most of the times you do not . This is why it is important to play the numbers game when going for this

and I think this is what people fail to understand , is that game does not beat natural preselection

if you are average or bellow and want to bang model like women , the only thing that will enable this is game plus doing something amazing ( making good money , having a business , being a teacher or a decent writer ) . If you just sit and complain things will not move forward

also a big thing is that people thing that having big muscles , this will solve some problems . Muscles gives you maximum maximum 2 points in smv . And only if you look like a Spartan soldier . In rest it will give you 1 point

rather than spending most of your time in a gym with sweaty guys , better learn a new skill and monetize it

the problem this days that men have is that they want only the best without putting any almost effort . Just like women do

not even guys that are 9s and 10s in looks do not sleep that often with women that are 9s and 10s without having at least an average social value ( money , connections , doing something amazing )

usually they sleep with 7s and 8s
 
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I’ll put it this way.

When a normie or Chad/Chadlite criticizes a ‘cel guy, he is implying that the ‘cel guy hasn’t “earned” any success with women. He just plays video games and doesn’t take a shower, etc.

When the ‘cel guy comes back with “It’s all about looks,” the good looking guy is thinking “He’s suggesting that I didn’t ‘earn’ my success with women. He’s suggesting I just got lucky via the genetic lottery.” That’s the part that can (understandably) ruffle feathers.
That is what I meant to imply but you really spelled it out. That is why this board will always be deeply divided in that regard.
 

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Or just cant make moved at.the right time. I have not asked for a girl's number in a year. I regret not doing so more frequently. Its like I am skydiving to do that mentally or something.
 

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Or just cant make moved at.the right time. I have not asked for a girl's number in a year. I regret not doing so more frequently. Its like I am skydiving to do that mentally or something.
you need to do things that will make you feel good about yourself , and thus feel like a champ
 

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given up looking (porn, video games, weed) -> then complains about women only want 10% of guys ("what's the point, mgtow youtube guy says women only want chad").
 
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