"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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In the last two years of high school (im a senior now) I have had girls hitting on my like crazy. Especially this year.
Around 2 or 3 girls per week that I have never seen before in my life walk up to my locker and give me a note, or start talking to me (obvious flirting) , or they just plain out say "your really hott".
As good as it sounds... its not. I am not interested in any of them and they all score VERY LOW in the looks department. One girl even has like a goatee going on. I can tell she shaves. I like this one girl and she is the only one who doesn't show interest towards me... What kind of a curse is upon me? Any ideas or suggestions...

PS: To be honest with you guys, I don't exactly know how the girl I like feels about me. I talk to her but she usually doesnt go out of her way to talk to me. I still have to work on her I guess.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Humm..the girl you like is the one not leaving notes on your locker or telling you that you are hot? Something sound familiar?
 
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Ever hear of girl AFC's? well you have now...
 
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I understand what you mean. The reason why the nasty girls are almost always the only women that approach is because they're used to it. Attractive men don't approach nasty girls so if they want a chance they have no other choice. Attractive women on the other hand have men approaching them all the time. So they don't have to approach. But keep in mind just because she doesn't seem interested it doesn't mean that she's not, it could be that she's nervous.
 
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Ya, now I kinda understand what's going on. You all gave good ideas...
About that girl that I like... she used to ask me to give her rides home all the time a couple of weeks ago, but not anymore because she has cheerleading. The first ride home, she gave me her cell and home number, I didnt even ask for them. But everytime I call, she is busy doing something. Her friends call me hott in front of her, but she never does anything like that. And I hardly ever see her with other guys, she always hangs out with her girlfriends. This is a tough nut to crack guys, but I like the challenge for some strange reason.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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When the ugliest girl in the grade stalks you through notes and the whole school knows about it, then I'll feel bad.
Man I feel bad fro my boy lol. The chick tried to write me notes and I laughed and handed it back to her and now I ignore her. Its not worth being annoyed so she feels good about herself. I am ot gonna puttup with that sheit lol.
 
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