Eighth Passenger
Don Juan
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Why is it recommended to ask a girl out to coffee? Not every girl likes coffee. Are there any other conversation closers?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Why is it always coffee.
- Thread starter Eighth Passenger
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Heizen
Senior Don Juan
I always close with "You and I should chill sometime" instead of coffee. Depending on how you think you feel, chilling could mean walking around the mall, at someones house, or in a motel room 
Its my favorite line to use.
Otherwise if its a good conversation that you have to leave, be it a actual excuse or you wanting to do something else without the girl, I say "We should continue this later (number close)"
Its my favorite line to use.Otherwise if its a good conversation that you have to leave, be it a actual excuse or you wanting to do something else without the girl, I say "We should continue this later (number close)"
One on One
Master Don Juan
Well, you could just ask her if she wants to get together and eat a bunch of caramels sometime.
(props if you got the reference)
(props if you got the reference)
Player_Supreme
Banned
Now this is stupid. This is a real no brainer kind of post. If she doesn't like coffee huh...and what coffee shops do you know that only serve coffee?
Sometimes you can't see the forest cause all the dam tree's are in the fawking way.
If she says she doesn't like coffee then ask her what she likes...I'll bet most coffee shops will have it..even if it's a water.
Sometimes you can't see the forest cause all the dam tree's are in the fawking way.
If she says she doesn't like coffee then ask her what she likes...I'll bet most coffee shops will have it..even if it's a water.
willo
Don Juan
if they like you enough they will have coffee even if they don't like it.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.