Eighth Passenger
Don Juan
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Why is it recommended to ask a girl out to coffee? Not every girl likes coffee. Are there any other conversation closers?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Why is it always coffee.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Heizen
Senior Don Juan
I always close with "You and I should chill sometime" instead of coffee. Depending on how you think you feel, chilling could mean walking around the mall, at someones house, or in a motel room 
Its my favorite line to use.
Otherwise if its a good conversation that you have to leave, be it a actual excuse or you wanting to do something else without the girl, I say "We should continue this later (number close)"
Its my favorite line to use.Otherwise if its a good conversation that you have to leave, be it a actual excuse or you wanting to do something else without the girl, I say "We should continue this later (number close)"
One on One
Master Don Juan
Well, you could just ask her if she wants to get together and eat a bunch of caramels sometime.
(props if you got the reference)
(props if you got the reference)
Player_Supreme
Banned
Now this is stupid. This is a real no brainer kind of post. If she doesn't like coffee huh...and what coffee shops do you know that only serve coffee?
Sometimes you can't see the forest cause all the dam tree's are in the fawking way.
If she says she doesn't like coffee then ask her what she likes...I'll bet most coffee shops will have it..even if it's a water.
Sometimes you can't see the forest cause all the dam tree's are in the fawking way.
If she says she doesn't like coffee then ask her what she likes...I'll bet most coffee shops will have it..even if it's a water.
willo
Don Juan
if they like you enough they will have coffee even if they don't like it.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.