"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Why is having friends so important to most people?

Crazy Asian

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i have 2 true friends that are like brothers to me.
it's better than having 100 normal friends.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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LonesomeLoser

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Well I have always seen other people as a means to an end, things to be used. I was very sheltered and spoiled growing up and used my family for all I could get from them. The only problem now is there is no one to take care of me and spoil me which is why my depression. I don't think I ever wanted to grow up and be an adult. I mean, I wanted the freedom but not the responsibility. But I think that pretty much its human nature to use others. Every human interaction is basically "what can I get from this person?" no matter how much they will protest to the contrary. So I see the desire for "friends" as such lying bullsh!t. No one wants "friends", they want people who they know they can use.
 
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