"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Why is having friends so important to most people?

Crazy Asian

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i have 2 true friends that are like brothers to me.
it's better than having 100 normal friends.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

LonesomeLoser

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Well I have always seen other people as a means to an end, things to be used. I was very sheltered and spoiled growing up and used my family for all I could get from them. The only problem now is there is no one to take care of me and spoil me which is why my depression. I don't think I ever wanted to grow up and be an adult. I mean, I wanted the freedom but not the responsibility. But I think that pretty much its human nature to use others. Every human interaction is basically "what can I get from this person?" no matter how much they will protest to the contrary. So I see the desire for "friends" as such lying bullsh!t. No one wants "friends", they want people who they know they can use.
 
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