Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Im above 6ft, muscular, have a 3.0, considered good looking, and drive a porsche. Please tell me how I can really better myself in college besides being a bill gates. You really just have to deal with the cards you are delt with till you graduate.narcissist said:
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Everything on the outside is fine. Its what's inside that you lack. Your mind is broken. The good news is it can be fixed. Not with a sliver of positive thinking but a real in depth process of mind programming unfvckery.Dhoulmagus said:
Stop feeding the troll dude. I don't believe a lick of what he says.sylvester the cat said:
You are a trollGray The Prince said:
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
My post still applies. More so if he is a troll.Gray The Prince said:
exactly perfectly statedZarky said:
