She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Im above 6ft, muscular, have a 3.0, considered good looking, and drive a porsche. Please tell me how I can really better myself in college besides being a bill gates. You really just have to deal with the cards you are delt with till you graduate.narcissist said:
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Everything on the outside is fine. Its what's inside that you lack. Your mind is broken. The good news is it can be fixed. Not with a sliver of positive thinking but a real in depth process of mind programming unfvckery.Dhoulmagus said:
Stop feeding the troll dude. I don't believe a lick of what he says.sylvester the cat said:
You are a trollGray The Prince said:
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
My post still applies. More so if he is a troll.Gray The Prince said:
exactly perfectly statedZarky said:
