Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Im above 6ft, muscular, have a 3.0, considered good looking, and drive a porsche. Please tell me how I can really better myself in college besides being a bill gates. You really just have to deal with the cards you are delt with till you graduate.narcissist said:
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Everything on the outside is fine. Its what's inside that you lack. Your mind is broken. The good news is it can be fixed. Not with a sliver of positive thinking but a real in depth process of mind programming unfvckery.Dhoulmagus said:
Stop feeding the troll dude. I don't believe a lick of what he says.sylvester the cat said:
You are a trollGray The Prince said:
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
My post still applies. More so if he is a troll.Gray The Prince said:
exactly perfectly statedZarky said:
