LeftyLoosey
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Why I'm Never Getting Married (Again)
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
LeftyLoosey
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Not my family. I'm just saying, your hot wife can turn into a hag before you know what hit you.Amazing said:
Mr.Positive
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To me they look like a happy family. We all age, and to be honest, I think she aged gracefully. Though, she needs to grow her hair long, imo.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
starplayer
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Before you know what hit you? Those photos were taken over a 30 year period.LeftyLoosey said:
Luthor Rex
Master Don Juan
*going blind*
She started off an average looking woman... and turned into a man!!??
I feel sick.
She started off an average looking woman... and turned into a man!!??
I feel sick.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Buddha_Mind
Master Don Juan
What the hell is wrong with you people?
Nobody is perfect -- she aged and raised a family. Isn't there more to people than their outward appearance?
Maybe half of why most relationships fail is because of the incredible expectations people demand from one another.
If you hope to ever love someone in your life, I hope you first evaluate what that word means to you and the conditions that rely upon it.
peace.
PS -- and if you didn't notice, it looks like their oldest son was born with a hearing disability. There is more to life than the shape of a persons face. And you will find through time, your own body aging and wrinkling and before you know it, back to dust like everything else.
Nobody is perfect -- she aged and raised a family. Isn't there more to people than their outward appearance?
Maybe half of why most relationships fail is because of the incredible expectations people demand from one another.
If you hope to ever love someone in your life, I hope you first evaluate what that word means to you and the conditions that rely upon it.
peace.
PS -- and if you didn't notice, it looks like their oldest son was born with a hearing disability. There is more to life than the shape of a persons face. And you will find through time, your own body aging and wrinkling and before you know it, back to dust like everything else.
Scaramouche
Master Don Juan
Dear Lefty Loosy,
Well if you don't want children dont marry!!!....Sadly Western Women as well as becoming addled in their head space as they age, have a bulimic gene which combined with with our remarkable spending power allows them to become fat....Try a Chinese Lady,their diet will add years to your life too,not having either the old religion or the new religion of feminism you get reasonable svx whenever you want it......True you will have communication problems and you will not laugh nearly as much,but I think it's worth it for the extra years you will live.
Well if you don't want children dont marry!!!....Sadly Western Women as well as becoming addled in their head space as they age, have a bulimic gene which combined with with our remarkable spending power allows them to become fat....Try a Chinese Lady,their diet will add years to your life too,not having either the old religion or the new religion of feminism you get reasonable svx whenever you want it......True you will have communication problems and you will not laugh nearly as much,but I think it's worth it for the extra years you will live.
spider_007
Master Don Juan
so what happens to your UGLY wife that you settled for as she ages?
Looks like your average American family.
The dude was average and he married an average looker his age because he couldn't get anything better (or didn't know better) and neither could she. In time they probably worked hard to support raising their 2 kids and that also took a toll on their bodies and health. It probably became a sexless union starting at the 1980's when his wife started to cut her hair (not by his approval that's for sure).
The solution if you want to get married: get married to a much younger and hotter woman who takes care of herself (excercizes and eats the right food), look at her mother to see the possible genetic implication, and tell her to never cut that hair!! get a weave or extensions when she starts losing thickness or what not but never cut it short!
The dude was average and he married an average looker his age because he couldn't get anything better (or didn't know better) and neither could she. In time they probably worked hard to support raising their 2 kids and that also took a toll on their bodies and health. It probably became a sexless union starting at the 1980's when his wife started to cut her hair (not by his approval that's for sure).
The solution if you want to get married: get married to a much younger and hotter woman who takes care of herself (excercizes and eats the right food), look at her mother to see the possible genetic implication, and tell her to never cut that hair!! get a weave or extensions when she starts losing thickness or what not but never cut it short!
Dagwood
Don Juan
Looks like a good family to me.
Dont see any hotness that vanished in the first decade. Just average looking people. The kids look good.
Something happened to the old guy in the mid/end 90s where he looks all shot.
Dont see any hotness that vanished in the first decade. Just average looking people. The kids look good.
Something happened to the old guy in the mid/end 90s where he looks all shot.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.