LeftyLoosey
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Why I'm Never Getting Married (Again)
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
LeftyLoosey
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Not my family. I'm just saying, your hot wife can turn into a hag before you know what hit you.Amazing said:
Mr.Positive
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To me they look like a happy family. We all age, and to be honest, I think she aged gracefully. Though, she needs to grow her hair long, imo.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
starplayer
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Before you know what hit you? Those photos were taken over a 30 year period.LeftyLoosey said:
Luthor Rex
Master Don Juan
*going blind*
She started off an average looking woman... and turned into a man!!??
I feel sick.
She started off an average looking woman... and turned into a man!!??
I feel sick.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Buddha_Mind
Master Don Juan
What the hell is wrong with you people?
Nobody is perfect -- she aged and raised a family. Isn't there more to people than their outward appearance?
Maybe half of why most relationships fail is because of the incredible expectations people demand from one another.
If you hope to ever love someone in your life, I hope you first evaluate what that word means to you and the conditions that rely upon it.
peace.
PS -- and if you didn't notice, it looks like their oldest son was born with a hearing disability. There is more to life than the shape of a persons face. And you will find through time, your own body aging and wrinkling and before you know it, back to dust like everything else.
Nobody is perfect -- she aged and raised a family. Isn't there more to people than their outward appearance?
Maybe half of why most relationships fail is because of the incredible expectations people demand from one another.
If you hope to ever love someone in your life, I hope you first evaluate what that word means to you and the conditions that rely upon it.
peace.
PS -- and if you didn't notice, it looks like their oldest son was born with a hearing disability. There is more to life than the shape of a persons face. And you will find through time, your own body aging and wrinkling and before you know it, back to dust like everything else.
Scaramouche
Master Don Juan
Dear Lefty Loosy,
Well if you don't want children dont marry!!!....Sadly Western Women as well as becoming addled in their head space as they age, have a bulimic gene which combined with with our remarkable spending power allows them to become fat....Try a Chinese Lady,their diet will add years to your life too,not having either the old religion or the new religion of feminism you get reasonable svx whenever you want it......True you will have communication problems and you will not laugh nearly as much,but I think it's worth it for the extra years you will live.
Well if you don't want children dont marry!!!....Sadly Western Women as well as becoming addled in their head space as they age, have a bulimic gene which combined with with our remarkable spending power allows them to become fat....Try a Chinese Lady,their diet will add years to your life too,not having either the old religion or the new religion of feminism you get reasonable svx whenever you want it......True you will have communication problems and you will not laugh nearly as much,but I think it's worth it for the extra years you will live.
spider_007
Master Don Juan
so what happens to your UGLY wife that you settled for as she ages?
Looks like your average American family.
The dude was average and he married an average looker his age because he couldn't get anything better (or didn't know better) and neither could she. In time they probably worked hard to support raising their 2 kids and that also took a toll on their bodies and health. It probably became a sexless union starting at the 1980's when his wife started to cut her hair (not by his approval that's for sure).
The solution if you want to get married: get married to a much younger and hotter woman who takes care of herself (excercizes and eats the right food), look at her mother to see the possible genetic implication, and tell her to never cut that hair!! get a weave or extensions when she starts losing thickness or what not but never cut it short!
The dude was average and he married an average looker his age because he couldn't get anything better (or didn't know better) and neither could she. In time they probably worked hard to support raising their 2 kids and that also took a toll on their bodies and health. It probably became a sexless union starting at the 1980's when his wife started to cut her hair (not by his approval that's for sure).
The solution if you want to get married: get married to a much younger and hotter woman who takes care of herself (excercizes and eats the right food), look at her mother to see the possible genetic implication, and tell her to never cut that hair!! get a weave or extensions when she starts losing thickness or what not but never cut it short!
Dagwood
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Looks like a good family to me.
Dont see any hotness that vanished in the first decade. Just average looking people. The kids look good.
Something happened to the old guy in the mid/end 90s where he looks all shot.
Dont see any hotness that vanished in the first decade. Just average looking people. The kids look good.
Something happened to the old guy in the mid/end 90s where he looks all shot.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.