SamTheHobit
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Gross.QuadDeuces said:
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Why I'll never get a girlfriend in South Africa.
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Bokanovsky
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I can honestly say that I have never been attracted to a black chick..like ever. They just don't do anything for me.JoeMarron said:
Another thing to keep in mind is that black people in South Africa have one of the highest HIV infection rates anywhere in the world. Nearly 20% of adult black South Africans have AIDS...think about that for a second. Statistically speaking, if you bang 5 black South African girls, you are practically guaranteed to have banged someone who's got AIDS. Still got that boner?
In real life or none period? If I lined up 100 black women in front of you with perfect skin, perfect waist to hip ratios and firm plump T&A you wouldn't feel the slightest attraction to any of them? Lol to each his own but I still don't understand it. You do have a point with the AIDS statistics btw.Bokanovsky said:
Ringleader41
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I honestly would not want aids too. I don't know what the black women in south africa look like, but the ones in america don't look too pretty and I'm being really nice.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
SamTheHobit
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Is it a coinsedence they are both light skinned?Danger said:
I think not.
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I just feel no attraction whatsoever to black women. I wouldn't touch Beyonce with someone else's 10 foot long pole.JoeMarron said:
I hate to have to break this to you. but S. Africa is not the only country in the world, and the world aint going to end if you NEVER score, dude. So either do something about it, committ suicide, or "go" gay (same thing, in my book) Your choice.