SamTheHobit
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Gross.QuadDeuces said:
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Why I'll never get a girlfriend in South Africa.
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Bokanovsky
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I can honestly say that I have never been attracted to a black chick..like ever. They just don't do anything for me.JoeMarron said:
Another thing to keep in mind is that black people in South Africa have one of the highest HIV infection rates anywhere in the world. Nearly 20% of adult black South Africans have AIDS...think about that for a second. Statistically speaking, if you bang 5 black South African girls, you are practically guaranteed to have banged someone who's got AIDS. Still got that boner?
In real life or none period? If I lined up 100 black women in front of you with perfect skin, perfect waist to hip ratios and firm plump T&A you wouldn't feel the slightest attraction to any of them? Lol to each his own but I still don't understand it. You do have a point with the AIDS statistics btw.Bokanovsky said:
Ringleader41
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I honestly would not want aids too. I don't know what the black women in south africa look like, but the ones in america don't look too pretty and I'm being really nice.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
SamTheHobit
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Is it a coinsedence they are both light skinned?Danger said:
I think not.
Bokanovsky
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I just feel no attraction whatsoever to black women. I wouldn't touch Beyonce with someone else's 10 foot long pole.JoeMarron said:
I hate to have to break this to you. but S. Africa is not the only country in the world, and the world aint going to end if you NEVER score, dude. So either do something about it, committ suicide, or "go" gay (same thing, in my book) Your choice.