"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Why has this forum nlocked some normal words?

Materialism

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I dont really get why this forum has blocked so many words from being used. Itäs not like it's a Christian forum or anything.

Half the threads are about how to **** (ofcourse i have to write: FCUK) as many girls as possible, so why this wuss-attitude towards normal language.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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IRONMAN22

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**** **** ass **** ... jeezes I hear these words all the time :rolleyes:
 

Materialism

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Just remove the blocks. The attitude of this forum is not "politically correct", so why the hell should the language be.
 

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Originally posted by Materialism
Just remove the blocks. The attitude of this forum is not "politically correct", so why the hell should the language be.
Seriously and don't you have to be over 13 to join these forums anyway? It's not like any little kids are coming here.
 

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I've thought it was stupid ever since I joined this board. It's funny because whenever I type out swear words on another forum i always write "bytch shyt fycker" and people are like "why do you type it like that?" Damn you sosuave!!!:D
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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jiza101

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Originally posted by italostud
I've thought it was stupid ever since I joined this board. It's funny because whenever I type out swear words on another forum i always write "bytch shyt fycker" and people are like "why do you type it like that?" Damn you sosuave!!!:D
:crackup: I do the same man, i type fvck, they are like um learn to spell, and he goes ITS OK YOU CAN TYPE ****!!
 

sifer

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Let's not use offensive words shall we?

The choice of words you use in your daily life determines your vocabulary and your thinkings.
 

Create Reality

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Can you believe ****** is censored? Maybe its a swear word in some Alien language and Allen doesnt wanna discriminate! :crackup:

******.

0utwar.
 

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Originally posted by Create Reality
0utwar.
Actually, it's the name of an online game which uses people clicking referral links to increase their score. It became so rampant that the word was censored. It does make for problems when someone says something like "her 0utward appearance was fastidious"...

Regarding the word censor, it's been brought up before in the old Suggestions & Feeback forum. To make a long story short, it's not going to change. If you don't like it, sorry, but that's the way Allen wants the forum. Increase your vocabulary and you won't run into problems trying to express yourself.
 

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Originally posted by diablo
Actually, it's the name of an online game which uses people clicking referral links to increase their score. It became so rampant that the word was censored. It does make for problems when someone says something like "her 0utward appearance was fastidious"...

Regarding the word censor, it's been brought up before in the old Suggestions & Feeback forum. To make a long story short, it's not going to change. If you don't like it, sorry, but that's the way Allen wants the forum. Increase your vocabulary and you won't run into problems trying to express yourself.
Don't you think 0utward should be unblocked now though? No one seems to know about that thing now.

And I don't have a problem with swear words being censored, but I think words like d*ck, p*ssy, cl*t, etc. should be unblocked because they are fairly relavant to the topics on this forum.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Create Reality

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Originally posted by diablo
Actually, it's the name of an online game which uses people clicking referral links to increase their score. It became so rampant that the word was censored. It does make for problems when someone says something like "her 0utward appearance was fastidious"...
Well, no one's writing romance novels here. But I say get rid of it! I like the word 0utward.
 

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Originally posted by familyguyfan
Do I think words like d*ck, p*ssy, cl*t, etc. should be unblocked because they are fairly relavant to the topics on this forum.
We can always say "sausage," "flower" and "hat" ...
 

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Originally posted by Skating Penguin
We can always say "sausage," "flower" and "hat" ...
HAHAHAHA, hat sounds funny.
 

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I wanted to stick my sausage in her flower, but first I had to play with her hat. : / kind of loses effectiveness
 

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I also dont really see the point of censoring certein words, but hey, ADAPT!;)


Laterz...
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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You don't need to use curse words. People always go around the filters anyways.
 

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I love to attack cultural truisms, and I firmly believe the phenoma known as "cursing" is such a creature.

Can someone give me a believeable (based on logic/reason/intelligence) explanation why certain words are "ugly" and how other words are not?

Anyone?

Thought so!

Just think about it. It's absolutely completely totally absurd.

In English I've noticed a lot of so-called curse words are focused around the toilet and around sex. In Scandinavia the "dirty" words are mostly focused around different ways of addressing the devil or hell.

Anyhow, still absurd. Just had to rant.
 

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Originally posted by line_in_the_sand
Can someone give me a believeable (based on logic/reason/intelligence) explanation why certain words are "ugly" and how other words are not?

Anyone?

Thought so!

Just think about it. It's absolutely completely totally absurd.
I've got a mission for you. Go into the inner city, find a swolt-up black guy, and call him a "n!gger". Then try to explain your theory to him.
 

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Originally posted by diablo
I've got a mission for you. Go into the inner city, find a swolt-up black guy, and call him a "n!gger". Then try to explain your theory to him.
Point very much taken - lol. But when you look at more "neutral" things like toilet/sex/(religion)-related words one can still call this one absurd if you ask me. :cool:
 
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