Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Why not actually talk to women and decide not to bang them when they want it? Then have them say what will i do with you?Okay I will spend $10 on a car wash and test your theory out. But that may still qualify for doing a new thing out of the ordinary.
I don't deny that I strip club-max and VIPmax in the strip club.... I've talked about it before and have no guilt or shame about it.....I do whatever is necessary to give myself an advantage in life....@Xenom0rph visited a hooker and noticed IOIs afterwards. I read the post where he said that.
The real question is: do I care?....no.... the whole purpose of VIPmaxxing is to kill the thirst so I WON'T care what they think.... If it can get me some IOI and segue into some conversation, great, I'm good with that.... If it doesn't spark conversation, no problem, I'll just on about my business thirst-free...So, @Xenom0rph, my challenge is this, how do you know its because of what you are saying, and you didn't just do something that's shockingly outside your comfort zone?
Thought the meds were doing that now.I don't deny that I strip club-max and VIPmax in the strip club.... I've talked about it before and have no guilt or shame about it.....I do whatever is necessary to give myself an advantage in life....
....having excessive thirst puts a man at a disadvantage, so I do what I have to do to kill the thirst.... the thirst is the biggest clue that gives away a man's drought status.....
The real question is: do I care?....no.... the whole purpose of VIPmaxxing is to kill the thirst so I WON'T care what they think.... If it can get me some IOI and segue into some conversation, great, I'm good with that.... If it doesn't spark conversation, no problem, I'll just on about my business thirst-free...
They are, and thank goodness for that because strip clubs are closed and will probably all go out of business.....Thought the meds were doing that now.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
They closed in Ontario too. We are getting the second wave.They are, and thank goodness for that because strip clubs are closed and will probably all go out of business.....
I wasn't trying to get likes I was telling the truth. Sellers on a man or woman are two different things.But men are attracted to sexless women like in your example because they are hot? Isn't that a catch-22 that men have that a woman doesn't have. I mean, even taking that argument at face value, no women can be an incel, but only men can be incel because only men can have a catch-22 like that.
Right, because he's incel. So you are agreeing with me, only men can be incel.
Which could be nothing.
Yet, nobody likes your posts because they are off base. You don't get scores of people liking your post, and I get more likes on my posts in these discussions generally than you do which doesn't speak much about what other people on here feel about what you are saying.
Singular, "relationship", you are referring to 2012 ex-gf. How is 2014 with ex-wife "strange"?
All you are pointing out is to glaring disadvantages men have that women do not have and why only a guy can be an incel.
Sexless on a man and a woman are two different thingsI wasn't trying to get likes I was telling the truth. Sellers on a man or woman are two different things.
"like", "like", "like"Sexless on a man and a woman are two different things
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.